Date: September 13, 2023|Series: Youth for Jesus|Number: Vol. 6, No. 18
“The LORD says, “I will teach you the way you should go; I will instruct you and advise you. Don’t be stupid like a horse or a mule, which must be controlled with a bit and bridle to make it submit.”” (Ps 32:8-9GNT)
From what we see in our opening text, it is clear that God is committed to leading us in the way we should go to enjoy His best and also be the best we can be in life. However, for Him to successfully lead us to experience all that He has in store for us, we have to willingly and humbly yield ourselves to Him.
Otherwise, He may not be able to accomplish His purpose in us without hurting us.See, God reserves the right to let us be, if we will not cooperate with Him in guiding us to be all that He wants us to be in life.
Yes, He can choose to allow us to lead ourselves, if we will not allow Him to lead us. And if that happens, sooner or later, we will realise that we cannot lead ourselves without ruining our lives and even everything we hold dear.Then if God, out of compassion and in spite of our stubbornness, still decides to lead us to experience His goodness, He may have to take very drastic measures to make us submit to Him and follow Him.
For example, Jacob once found himself wrestling with a man that had appeared to him while he was faced with an imminent attack from his brother, Esau. What led to his struggle with this man? We would not know. But it is clear from the account that he knew that the man he was wrestling with was no ordinary man but one in a position to bless him. (Cf. Gen 32:22-32)
Now the question is, “Why was Jacob wresting with one who could bless him?” Why did he not just yield to the man and freely receive his blessings? Well, as the account further goes, when the man realised that he could not overpower him, he hit his hip and threw it out of joint, so that he began to limp for the rest of his life.
And it was after then that he blessed him and changed his name to Israel.But what is the point of this experience that Jacob had? It was to teach him that he had been struggling with God all his life instead of yielding to him. Jacob was someone that truly believed in God and in His purpose for his life.
However, the story of his life before that experience shows that he was also someone that believed in using his own schemes to help God realise His purpose for his life. We see this in the way he cheated his brother, in the way he lied to his father and also in the way he related to Laban, his uncle. He always had something up his sleeves in dealing with everyone in his life.So, when he was supposed to go back home and settle down to enjoy his family and prosperity, the fear of his brother would not let him have peace of mind.
That, of course, was when God showed up to him in form of a man. And He showed up to him to let him see that unless He hurt him, He would not be able to fulfil His good purpose in his life, as long as he continued to insist on doing things his way. So, Jacob learnt utter submission to God and His ways in a hard way.
Now, as we see in our opening text, God is warning us too, telling us not to be Jacob. He is telling us not to be like horses or mules that had to be restrained and controlled with bit and bridle in order to make them listen to their riders. In other words, He does not want us to make leading us to experience His goodness hard or difficult for Him.
Instead, He wants us to willingly yield ourselves to Him and to His word, so that He will be able to fulfil His good purpose in us without having to first injure us. Otherwise, He may just decide to let us be and so fail to be what He wants us to be in this life. In like manner, in all our human relationships, we need to learn to cooperate with those who have authority over us and are in a position to make our lives better through their leadership, as long as they are in the will of God. We should not make leading us difficult for them (Heb 13:17).
Otherwise, they may have to take very drastic measures in making us do what we should have been willingly and naturally doing for our growth, development and profitability in life. And that may not leave us without some injuries or pains.