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Emotional statements ensnare | Pst. J.O. Lawal | August 03, 2022 | Youth for Jesus |Vol. 5, No. 12

“Finally the opportune time came. On his birthday Herod gave a banquet for his high officials and military commanders and the leading men of Galilee. When the daughter of Herodias came in and danced, she pleased Herod and his dinner guests. The king said to the girl, “Ask me for anything you want, and I’ll give it to you.” And he promised her with an oath, “Whatever you ask I will give you, up to half my kingdom.”” (Mark 6:21-23NIV)

When Herod was swearing an oath to Herodias’ daughter that he would give her anything she wanted, up to half of his kingdom, he did not think that the girl would, even in her wildest dreams, ask for nothing but the head of John the Baptist. But that was what she asked for. Now because he made his pledge publicly, he was under pressure to fulfil it. And he fulfilled it and joined the company of prophet killers.

But was Herod under any form of pressure to make that pledge? No! He made the pledge because he was excited. So, it was an emotional pledge, a pledge that he made without thinking clearly, a pledge he made when he was probably half-drunk, a pledge he made without considering the character of the person involved. So, he needlessly ensnared himself by his words and made himself a murderer.

Also, we have in the bible the account of a man named Jephthah and of how he made a vow to give to the Lord as a burnt offering whatever came out of his house to greet him, if the Lord should give him victory over his enemies, the Ammonites. Unfortunately, when he came back home, after the Lord had given him victory over his enemies, it was his daughter, his only child, that came out to greet him and to celebrate his victory with him. (Cf. Judges 11:29-40)

Now was Jephthah under any pressure to make a vow to the Lord at the time? No, he wasn’t. Yes, he was faced with the pressure of a war that he did not ask for. But the bible is also very clear about the fact that the Spirit of the Lord came upon him on that occasion to give him victory over his enemies. So, whether he made a vow or not, victory was already sure for him. 

Was it wrong for him, then, to make a vow to the Lord, as he did? No, it wasn’t! Making vows to the Lord is an act of faith in Him and should not be discouraged. However, making vows to Him is also a personal thing. It is not something anybody should force anybody to do or something anyone should do under pressure. That is because once we make a vow to Him, we are bound to fulfil it. Otherwise, we may just put ourselves in trouble (Ecc 5:4-6). Therefore, you must never allow anyone or any situation to drive or coerce or manipulate you to make any kind of vow to the Lord. Make your vows only because your heart wants to do so. 

But then, even if you have to make a vow, don’t make it on an emotional basis. Rather, make your vows on rational basis. In other words, think carefully about the kind of vows you are making and your capacity to fulfil them. Remember that you are not in charge of life and its affairs but God is. Remember also that accidents, mistakes and all kinds of unforeseen events happen everyday in this life. So, before you make a vow, first, make sure it is in line with the will of God. Also, make sure it is what you truly have the ability to make good. That means you must be reasonable in making your vows. That way, even if circumstances that are beyond your control should keep you from fulfilling your vows when due, God Himself will understand that is not your fault.

Jephthah made an emotional vow. He did not consider the will of God at all in making his vow. Would God ever accept a human burnt offering? No! Did He literally accept it from Abraham? No! In fact, one of the things He told the children of Israel never to do was to sacrifice their sons or daughters in the fire, for it was because of such things that He drove out the inhabitants of Canaan for them. (Cf. Deut 18:10)

So, it was totally out of place for Jephthah to make the kind of vow he made to God. In other words, his vow was dead on arrival – it was invalid from the moment it came out of his mouth. Why, then, did he make it? He made it because he was ignorant of the will of God for them. He made it at a time everybody in Israel did was what right in his eyes, not what was right in the eyes of God.  Otherwise, he should have had people that would let him know that it was not in his place to make that kind of vow. (Cf. Judges 21:25)

Unfortunately, people still act like Jephthah and make invalid vows and pledges today. They make vows and pledges that are born out of their ignorance of the will of God for them. Also, people make vows and pledges without considering how they will affect those in their lives or the roles those in their lives could play in enabling them to fulfil their vows or in voiding them. Then, when it is time for them to fulfil them, they will realise that they have taken on themselves responsibilities that are too much for them to handle.

Now, of course, how Jephthah fulfilled his own vow will always be a subject for debate among God’s people. Did he truly offer his daughter as a burnt offering to the Lord? Or did he redeem her and offer something else to God in her place? We really would not know what he did, seeing that we were not there. But the lesson of his story is clear. And it is that we must avoid making emotional statements, emotional pledges, vows, curses, blessings and so forth, especially when we are excited or under pressure. Otherwise, we may end up ensnaring ourselves with our words. And if we do so, the price we will pay may just be too much for us to handle. 

So, be careful.

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Don’t ensnare yourself | Pst. J.O. Lawal

Date: October 06, 2021 | Series: Youth for Jesus | Number: Vol. 4, No. 21

“Gideon made the gold into an ephod, which he placed in Ophrah, his town. All Israel prostituted themselves by worshiping it there, and it became a snare to Gideon and his family.” (Judg 8:27NIV)

Once, while teaching His disciples, our Lord Jesus said to them, “…Things that cause people to sin are bound to come, but woe to that person through whom they come. It would be better for him to be thrown into the sea with a millstone tied around his neck than for him to cause one of these little ones to sin. So watch yourselves…” (Luke 17:1-3NIV) He said these things to warn us all to watch the thing we do and say, so that we do not become responsible, whether consciously or unconsciously, for anybody’s fall into sin. Otherwise, it would be much worse for us than the one we have led astray, when God begins to judge.

But then, it is not only others that the things we do or say can ensnare and lead into trouble. They can ensnare us as well and become an occasion for us to stumble, fall or get destroyed. For example, as we see in our opening bible text, Gideon had made an Ephod of gold from the jewelleries he received as gifts from the Israelites after a battle. What was an Ephod? From what we see in Scriptures, it was originally one of the accessories of the High Priest’s garment, according to the instructions God gave Moses. But later on, in the history of the Israelites, we see that it also began to represent an object through which some of the people learnt the will of God. (Cf. Ex 28:6-8; 1Sam 23:9-12&30:7-8)

In any case, from the recorded encounter of Gideon that we have in the bible, we can tell that he originally made that Ephod so that he could have a means of personally enquiring from God. Whether it, then, served his purpose or not is something that is hard to tell. But as we are further shown in our opening text, it ended up becoming a trap that led the nation of Israel back into idolatry. The people began to worship it. And they were not the only ones that were ensnared by that Ephod; Gideon and his family were equally ensnared by it. In other words, it became a trap for them too, a trap that led their family, which was the first to turn away from idolatry at that time, back into idol worship. (Cf. Judges 6)

But do you know that all that could have been avoided, if Gideon had not made that Ephod? Yes, he originally meant well – he simply wanted a means through which he could consult God. But he was not a priest of God. There were priests in those days that were authorised by God to wear Ephods and that he could meet any time, should he need to learn the will of God about any matter that was not clearly defined in the book of law. What I am saying is that the book of God’s law to them was always available for any of them to consult in order to learn the mind of God about any matter. It is only when what is said about a matter in the book was not clear to the people or when nothing is directly or indirectly said about a matter in the book that they were expected to go to a priest or a known prophet of God for clarifications. Anything different from this, then, would be of the devil and result in nothing but idolatry, which would be followed by God’s judgment, as was the case with Gideon.

Now what is the point of all this? It is that we are to watch the things and people we bring into our lives or get ourselves involved with. Otherwise, we may unconsciously or unknowingly set traps of destruction or failure for ourselves. What I am saying is that there are people and things that we have no business associating with. There are individuals we do not need as friends or companions. There are items and facilities we don’t need to acquire, videos we don’t need to see or keep, songs we don’t need to hear or keep and even phone apps we don’t need to download. Why? We will be ensnaring ourselves through them.

Perhaps you have ensnared yourself in this manner before. You brought certain ungodly or carnal people or things into your life for some reasons, which may even appear legitimate, only for them to become the reason you found yourself in sexual immorality, theft, robbery, drug trafficking or use, bribery or some other destructive thing. Who do you now blame for this? Or who do you think is to blame? Yourself! And unless you separate yourself from such people or things, even if you have to be ruthless about it, you may never be free.

Well, all I am saying is that in all your dealings with men and the things of this world, be careful not to ensnare yourself. And you will be able to do that, if you will keep this admonition of the Lord to the nation of Israel in your heart: “Be careful not to make a treaty with those who live in the land where you are going, or they will be a snare among you.” (Ex 34:12NIV) Did you see that? If you unduly associate or unite yourself with any ungodly person or thing, you will ultimately ensnare yourself. And you may not get a chance to free yourself before you are destroyed. So, be very careful.

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