Author: Pastor J.O. Lawal

Series: Youth for Jesus

Number: Vol. 8, No. 43

“Therefore, since I myself have carefully investigated everything from the beginning, it seemed good also to me to write an orderly account for you, most excellent Theophilus, so that you may know the certainty of the things you have been taught.” (Luke 1:3-4NIV)

In our opening bible text, we find part of the introduction of Luke to his gospel concerning our Lord Jesus Christ. And what do we learn from what he says in this introduction? First, we learn that he originally wrote this gospel for the reading of a nobleman called Theophilus. The sort of position Theophilus was occupying at the time is something we cannot tell from the text. But by referring to him as ‘Most excellent Theophilus’, we can safely assume that the man must be occupying a very powerful and influential position wherever he was at the time.The second thing we learn from the text was that even though Luke was a believer in Christ Jesus at the time, he did not just believe everything he was told and taught about the Lord Jesus Christ.

Instead, he first carried out a careful, thorough and extensive investigation about the things he was hearing and learning before embracing them as true. Why did he do that? Well, first, he did that because he did not want to be acting on lies or fabricated stories. Second, it was because he lived during the days of the early preachers of the gospel and so nothing stopped him from verifying the things that they were saying to see whether they were true or not.

Third, it was so that he would not be leading others too, including Theophilus, to believe a lie.Now we find something similar to this in the attitude of the Jews in Berea towards the preaching of Paul, when he came to them. Look at what the bible says about this:“Now the Bereans were of more noble character than the Thessalonians, for they received the message with great eagerness and examined the Scriptures every day to see if what Paul said was true. Many of the Jews believed, as did also a number of prominent Greek women and many Greek men.” (Acts 17:11-12NIV)

Did you see that? These people did not just accept Paul’s sermons as true because he called himself an apostle of the Messiah that they had been waiting for. Instead, every day they took out time to investigate what he was teaching them in the Scriptures to see if it was true. And when they realised that it was true, many of them believed the gospel of the Lord Jesus Christ with joy.So, you can see that the apostles of old encouraged their audience to investigate the things they were teaching them. They did not just ask them to accept their messages as true because they were apostles. Otherwise, they would be preventing them from gaining the confidence they needed to defend their own faith in the Lord Jesus Christ.

That being the case, learn to investigate whatever you are being taught in the church and in life by anybody. Investigate it using the Scriptures and other relevant resources that are at your disposal. Don’t just accept anything as true on the strength of anybody’s title, position, education, fame or experience. That is a cheap way to be misled into believing and acting on lies or errors. And where that is the case, you will have only yourself to blame for whatever you suffer for believing and acting on any lie or error. So, mind yourself.

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Series: Youth for Jesus

Number: Vol. 8, No. 42

“”Pick me up and throw me into the sea,” he replied, “and it will become calm. I know that it is my fault that this great storm has come upon you.”” (Jonah 1:12NIV

)A number of years ago, while I was working with a bank, an app was developed and deployed by the IT department of the bank to aid transferring of funds into multiple accounts at the same time. And was that not a good and progressive thing? It was.However, that app malfunctioned when one of my colleagues attempted to use it in transferring the salaries of some government workers into their accounts. Instead of crediting the designated bank accounts, it credited accounts of workers of another government agency in another state. And sadly, some of those whose accounts were wrongly credited in this manner were not gracious enough to report the error in time.

On the contrary, they went ahead and began to spend the money.Well, when it was eventually discovered that a big error had been committed, guess who was asked to take responsibility for it? My colleague that used the app! That, of course, got me so upset that I had to take up the matter with some of our bosses at the time. And in the heat of the dealing with it, I remember saying these words to one of them: “Any of us can make mistakes, for we are all humans. So, a system we create can also make mistakes. But if anyone created a system that failed, he should at least be gracious and honest enough to take responsibility for it, instead of seeking to make others pay for his mess.” What is my point? It is that mistakes and accidents happen in life for various reasons. Even the word of God confirms that (Deut 19:4-5).

But mistakes and accidents don’t happen by themselves. People make them happen. And where you are responsible for a mistake, an error or an accident that has occurred, you should not waste time to take responsibility for it. Otherwise, you may allow innocent people to suffer for you. How, then, will you face God in such a situation?As we see in our opening text, Jonah stepped up to take responsibility for the mishap that those he was travelling with at the time were experiencing on the sea. Why? It was because the reason trouble came upon them was that he was running away from doing the will of God. So, if their trouble would go away, he must be thrown into the sea, as he pointed out to them. And would that not mean death for him? It would. But unless that was done, the people with him would lose more than their cargo; they would lose their lives as well.

Now, as the account further shows us, those with him did not want to do what he told them at all. Why? They did not want to become murders while trying to save themselves. But soon enough, they realised that God was the one judging Jonah indeed. Therefore, unless they threw him overboard, they would all perish. So, they did the needful and saved their lives. And by doing the needful, they gave room for Jonah himself to repent and receive God’s mercy for salvation and restoration. (Cf. Jonah 1&2)

What is that showing us? It is that while it may be hard for us to take responsibility for our errors or mistakes, doing so, especially with a heart of humility, can open God’s door of mercy and favour to us. So, instead, of suffering for our errors, we can be shown mercy for forgiveness, salvation and restoration. But if, instead of taking responsibility for our blunders, we allow others to suffer for them, whether out of fear or sheer wickedness, God will not fail to judge us at the right time. And who knows how He will judge?

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Series: Youth for Jesus

Number: Vol. 8, No. 40

“They also carried off Abram’s nephew Lot and his possessions, since he was living in Sodom.” (Gen 14:12NIV)

Who was living in Sodom, as we see in our opening text? It was Lot, Abraham’s nephew. And who carried him and his possessions off? The kings that attacked Sodom! But why?Well, as the account goes, the king of Sodom and his ally kings had been subject to Kedorlaomer king of Elam for twelve years. But they rebelled in the thirteenth year. Why? Maybe they felt that they had become strong enough to gain their independence. We would not know for sure. (Cf. Gen 14:1-4)

However, we do know from the account that when Kedorlaomer and his allies attacked them, they fled before them into the hills. So, these kings went into their cities to carry off all their people, goods and food. And that was when Lot and his possessions were carried off, since he too was living in Sodom at the time.It follows, then, that if Lot had not been living in Sodom at the time, he and his possessions would not have been carried off in that manner. But since he was living there, he too suffered the fate of all the people living there.

Thankfully, somebody reported this matter in time to Abraham, Lot’s uncle. Then, out of his concern for the man and because of his faith in God, he gathered his men and attacked those powerful kings. And even though it looked like a suicide attempt, God gave him victory over them. So, he was able to rescue Lot and his possessions. (Cf. Gen 14:13-16)

But was Lot supposed to be in Sodom in the first place? No! As we see in the account of his journey with his uncle, Abraham, it was greed that led him to go and live in Sodom. Truly, at the time, it was no longer convenient for he and Abraham to be living together. That was because they both had great possessions and the land could no longer support them. (Cf. Gen 13:1-7)

Therefore, Abraham, his uncle, told him to choose what part of the land he would move into and occupy. And instead for him to show some respect and tell the man, who actually had been taking care of him since his own father died, to choose where to go and live for him, he saw the situation as an opportunity to outshine him. That was why he chose the part of the land that looked like the garden of the Lord for himself. (Cf. Gen 13:8-13)

But the choice he made that day put him right among the people of Sodom. And these people were sinning greatly against the Lord at the time. So, they were a people marked for destruction. That means destruction was bound to come upon them at some point. It was only a matter of time. And since Lot had chosen to stay with them, he too was bound to experience whatever form of judgment or destruction that came upon them. You can see why he and his possessions were first carried off by those kings that attacked Sodom and why he would also later lose everything he owned, including his wife, when God’s judgment finally came upon that land.

Now what is all this teaching us? It is that where we live, stay, work or school matters a lot. Certain places may look like places of opportunities or advantages to us. But being there may expose us to challenges of life that we have no answers for. And if we are not shown mercy by God while in such places, we may lose more than our lives and possessions there; we may lose our souls as well.

Therefore, don’t choose to be anywhere merely because of what you see, hear or feel about the place. Instead, always pray to God to fill your heart with divine revelations about where to be, from time to time. That way, you can trust Him to lead you all the time to be in the right place at the right time, away from unnecessary challenges and troubles of life.Cheers!

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Series: Youth for Jesus

Number: Vol. 8, No. 40

“If the ax is dull and its edge unsharpened, more strength is needed but skill will bring success.” (Eccl 10:10NIV)

What Solomon says here in our opening text can be taken as self-explanatory. Nevertheless, it is important that we consider it carefully and not assume that we fully grasp it. Otherwise, we may not reap the full benefits of the wisdom he seeks to impart to us through it.What wisdom, then, does Solomon seek to impart through what he says here? It is mainly that we must learn to do whatever we need to do to make any ability, skill or education we have more effective, efficient and profitable in life. And he uses the axe to illustrate his point.Now, as we all know, the axe is a very useful too in dealing with trees and wood. It is also a very useful weapon for soldiers and warriors.

However, one thing that will make the use of an axe easy, fast and efficient is that it is sharp. If it is not sharp but dull, more energy and time will be required to do whatever needs to be done with it. Yes, a skilful person may be able to manage a dull axe to get some things done in time. But if he is wise and does not want to unduly squander his time, energy and resources on what needs to be done, he will know that the best thing for him to do is to sharpen that dull axe.

Well, the point of it all is that if we will be highly effective and efficient in using whatever ability, skill or education we have, we must learn to develop or cultivate it. See, the abilities God has given to us and the skills and education He has enabled us to acquire will not develop themselves. We are the ones that will develop them and must develop them. Otherwise, even though we are putting them to work, it will be hard for us to shine with them, however special they may be.

For example, even though God gave Solomon wisdom that was beyond measure, he had to train his mind to read, study, learn, explore, observe, investigate and experiment. Otherwise, the wisdom in him would simply remain dormant, dull, inactive and useless. Then nobody would have known him as a very wise and great king.But the man gave himself to doing those things that will sharpen the wisdom of God in his life, things that will make him shine with it. Look at what he says about himself:“I, the Teacher, was king over Israel in Jerusalem. I devoted myself to study and to explore by wisdom all that is done under heaven. What a heavy burden God has laid on men!” (Eccl 1:12-13NIV)

Did you see that? Solomon did not assume that the wisdom God gave him would automatically work and make him shine all by itself. Instead, he used his head and diligently applied his mind to study and learn everything that he considered relevant for him to study and learn in life. And as he did that, the wisdom in him was being sharpened day by day.

Then, at some point, he became so effective in using that wisdom that people came from all over the world to listen to him and learn from him.In the same vein, that ability, skill or education you have may never amount to anything or take you anywhere great in life, if you leave it dull, if you leave it to sharpen itself. That is because if you will not sharpen it, it will not sharpen itself. And if you continue to use it like that, dull, blunt or uncultivated, it will not be long before it frustrates you.

But if you will sharpen or cultivate it, you will someday be amazed at the kind of effective, efficient, useful and reliable person God will have made you through it. So, take stock of those abilities, skills and education you have that are in need of being cultivated or sharpened. Then begin to do the needful to them with diligence and consistency. And may God’s favour rest on you mightily to make you shine with every good gift He has blessed you with, in Jesus’ name. Amen.

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Series: Youth for Jesus

Number: Vol. 8, No. 39

“A feast is made for laughter, and wine makes life merry, but money is the answer for everything.” (Eccl 10:19NIV)

Those are Solomon’s words to us. And through them, he seems to be telling us that money is the solution to every problem of life. But is that what he is really saying? Is Solomon really telling us that money is the solution to every problem of life? No!What, then, is he saying? Well, in the context of the verse, what Solomon is telling us is that when it comes to organising feasts, ceremonies and parties, money is the solution. If you don’t have money or have people to sponsor you, you can’t have a party. Otherwise, it is going to be a dry party.But if you have some money with you, then, you can throw a party anytime you wish.

In fact, the more money you have, the more your ability to throw big parties will increase. In like manner, there are certain good things of life that you cannot access unless you have money or you have someone sponsoring you. That is because those things don’t come cheap – they cost a lot. Getting quality education, for instance, is never cheap – it is always expensive. Yes, someone can make it available for you or for your child free of charge.

That, however, does not mean that person has not paid some money for it.So, there are actually things in this life that you cannot have access to without money. Your crying, weeping or excuses will not make those things available to you. That is because the solution to gaining access to them is money. But then, there are also many things in this life that money cannot handle.

For instance, there are human relationships that money cannot fix, if they are damaged. And if you try to use money to fix them, you will most likely make them worse. Also, money cannot heal anybody. Yes, with money you can make the best medical care and attention available to yourself. But unless God heals you, the best medical care and attention in this world is bound to fail you.In addition to that, money cannot give you the power of enjoyment of life. Yes, with money you can throw parties, make available for yourself all kinds of things to enjoy, get great education and befriend all kinds of people.

But unless God releases to you the power to enjoy your parties, your possessions, your education and your relationships, your life will still be dry and boring. All of this is why Solomon also tells us this: “A man can do nothing better than to eat and drink and find satisfaction in his work. This too, I see, is from the hand of God, for without him, who can eat or find enjoyment?” (Eccl 2:24NIV)

Did you see that? Enjoyment and satisfaction in life both come from God, not from money. This is why you must never put your trust in money but in God. No, never see money as the solution to any problem of your life or as your source of enjoyment. That is because even though money can solve many problems in life, it is only those problems that God Himself has solved that it will be able to solve for you. Moreover, though money can make all kinds of things and people available to you in life, unless God releases into your life the power to enjoy those things and people, you will never enjoy them.

On the contrary, they may even become a problem to you. So, always remember that money is not the solution to every problem of life. It is simply a tool that God may use or not use to solve certain problems of your life. That way, you will not unduly give yourself to running after money and destroy your life and the lives of others around you.Cheers!

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Series: Youth for Jesus

Number: Vol. 8, No. 38

“Saul said to his servant, “If we go, what can we give the man? The food in our sacks is gone. We have no gift to take to the man of God. What do we have?” The servant answered him again. “Look,” he said, “I have a quarter of a shekel of silver. I will give it to the man of God so that he will tell us what way to take.”” (1Sam 9:7-8NIV)

What we have here in our opening bible text is part of the account of some of the things that happened before Saul became king over the nation of Israel. Somehow, the donkeys of his father got missing and he and his servants left their house to look for them. But even though they spent about three days looking for those donkeys, they could not find them. (Cf. 1Sam 9:1-6)

Therefore, Saul told his servant that it was time they went back home. Otherwise, his father would soon stop worrying about the missing donkeys and start worrying about them. And it was then that his servant suggested that they look for the man of God that was living in the place they had come to, so that he may tell them exactly what to do.But then, even though Saul had no trouble with the man’s suggestion, he could not see himself visiting a man of God empty-handed.

Why? The culture of the land at the time considered it insulting for someone to come seeking the counsel or prayer of a man of God without any gift in his hand. And while there is no command in the bible for us to make a culture of that today, it will be a good thing for us to emulate. What I am saying is that it is not only our problems we should be taking to our church leaders; we should also be taking gifts to them, as God blesses us. And God will surely honour us for doing so. (Cf. Gal 6:6)

In any case, when Saul made it clear to his servant that there was no way they could go to the man of God empty-handed, the man immediately told him that he had some money that he could give to the man of God as a gift.

That, of course, was how they both went to Samuel, who had been instructed by the Spirit of God to be expecting them, and God’s purpose was fulfilled in the life of Saul.But the question is, “Why was Saul’s servant quick to tell him that he had some personal money with him that they could take to the man of God as a gift on that occasion?” Remember that they had been wandering around in vain for three days, looking for those missing donkeys.

So, the man must of have been tired and desiring to return home to get some rest.In addition, he was just a servant and the missing donkeys were not his possessions. So, he really had nothing to lose, if they could not find them. But he did not show any form of tiredness or a desire to go back home without those missing donkeys. Instead, he was the one that suggested that they should look for a man of God to help them. Also, he was the one that offered to gift the man of God with some money, in appreciation of whatever help he might offer them.

Why did he act like that? The reason was that Saul must have been a good master to him. Sadly, this same Saul would go on to be a cruel master to David years later. But at that time, he must have been so good to his servant that the man was willing to serve him even with his own money. How inspiring!Unfortunately, many masters, teachers, bosses and leaders today cannot be said to be good to those under their care.

On the contrary, all that can be said about some of them is that they are harsh, cruel and unreliable. They will not show concern for the welfare of those under them. They will not pay them when due. They will not hesitate to take advantage of their ignorance or weakness to cheat them. And some will even borrow money from them and not return it until they fight to get it back.

So, unless God specially touches their hearts, they will never be moved to go the extra mile for such leaders, bosses or teachers or offer them any assistance, if they should be in need.Well, Saul was not like that to his servant that followed him that day. So, the man was willing to sacrifice his own time and money to help him. And that sacrifice led him to become the first king of Israel.

In like manner, the help or sacrifice of those under your care may go a long way in bringing about the fulfilment of God’s purpose for your life too. But will they be willing to make that sacrifice for you? The answer to that may be dependent on how good you are to them. So, be a good master to those under your care and stop making excuses for being cruel to them. That is because you may not know when it will be the difference between progress and stagnation for you.

Cheers!

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