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Study to activate wisdom | By: J.O. Lawal | Date: September 18, 2024 | Series: Youth for Jesus | Number: Vol. 7, No. 19

“I, the Teacher, was king over Israel in Jerusalem. I devoted myself to study and to explore by wisdom all that is done under heaven. What a heavy burden God has laid on men!” (Eccl 1:12-13NIV)

Who, in our opening text, said that he devoted himself to studying? It was Solomon. And why did he, of all people, need to study? At least, from what we see in Scriptures, God gave him wisdom, insight and a breadth of understanding that was beyond measure. What, then, did he need to study for? Was he not supposed to know everything by default?

Well, even though Solomon was unusually blessed by God with wisdom, insight and understanding, these things are not the same as knowledge. Indeed, wisdom, insight and understanding are needed to properly apply knowledge and make it profitable. But without knowledge all of them are still useless. That is because knowledge is the substance they work with.

How, then, do we gain knowledge? Knowledge, of course, is also a gift from God. But to say the fact, it is not really knowledge that is God’s gift; rather, it is the ability to know things or acquire knowledge that is God’s gift. In other words, when we say that God has given someone knowledge, what we actually mean is that God has given the person the ability to know things, to know all that he can know. If the person, then, will know all that he needs to know and that he can know, he will need to study. That means the person will need to apply his mind to know things and how they work.

Yes, God is able to make people know things supernaturally, that is, without having to study or learn them. But it is not in every situation that God reveals things to people supernaturally. In many cases, He does not. Why? It is because He has already given each of us the ability to study and learn to know things, to one degree or the other. And He expects us to employ this ability to the full.

If we, then, are employing it, He will not hesitate to reveal those things we can only know supernaturally to us, especially if we will ask Him. But if we will not employ the ability He has given to us to learn and know what we don’t need supernatural knowledge for, why should we expect Him to trust us with supernatural knowledge?

So, for the wisdom, insight, understanding and the ability to know things that that God gave to Solomon to shine, he would need to apply himself to studying everything he considered useful to him in life. Otherwise, nothing would become of these gifts that God had given to Him. And did he apply himself to studying or not? He did. In fact, he went as far as studying about plant life and animal life in order to stand out as a king of kings and as a man that was worth listening to by the whole world. (Cf. 1Kings 4:29-34)

Look also at our Lord Jesus Christ. Was it everything that He relied on supernatural knowledge to know? No! If He did that, there were a lot of things He would not know at all. But like other children, He too had to learn all kinds of things that would make Him fit for life. Then, in order to be able to live by the word of God and also handle it correctly with the wisdom of God in Him, He had to give Himself to studying it. And judging from the way He handled it, He surely studied it more than the religious leaders of the people.

In like manner, if we too will see God’s gifts of wisdom, insight, understanding and knowledge at work in tremendous ways in our lives, we must devote ourselves to studying His word, to studying life and to studying everything that is useful to succeeding in whatever field of life we have chosen to operate in. So, don’t run away from studying. Don’t be lazy in studying. It is one great way to activate God’s gifts of wisdom, insight and understanding that are already in you. Otherwise, you may end up small, useless or insignificant in life.

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A walk on the roof | By: J.O. Lawal | Date: September 11, 2024 | Series: Youth for Jesus | Number: Vol. 7, No. 18

“All this happened to King Nebuchadnezzar. Twelve months later, as the king was walking on the roof of the royal palace of Babylon, he said, “Is not this the great Babylon I have built as the royal residence, by my mighty power and for the glory of my majesty?”” (Dan 4:28-30NIV)

What made Nebuchadnezzar say such proud words to himself? The things he saw! What did he see? Well, he saw the beauty of his kingdom. And was anything wrong with that? No! Nothing is wrong with seeing beauty, the beauty of creation or the beauty of the works of our hands. But the conclusion we draw, having seen the beauty of creation or that of the works of our hands, may just be the difference between promotion and downfall for us.

As the account goes, when Nebuchadnezzar saw the beauty of his kingdom, his heart was lifted up with pride. He began to praise himself for being so mighty and powerful and for building everything he could see in Babylon for his own glory and majesty. But was he right? Did he actually have any power of his own to building himself anything? No, he didn’t!

Everything this king saw about Babylon that night, as beautiful as it was, was nothing but a gift to him from God. It did not come to him because he was some rare breed of humanity; neither did it come to him because he was better than the rest of mankind. But because he did not realize this, he allowed pride to fill his heart. So, he said what was too much for his mouth to say and was taught a very great lesson by God for it. He ran mad and lived like a beast in the jungle for some time. And if had not been for the mercy of God shown to him, he would have perished in that condition. (Cf. Dan 4:31-37)

But what led this man to experience all that? It was a walk on the roof. It was his walk on the roof of his palace one night that led him to see what he could not handle. Yes, being on the roof of his palace gave him an advantage to see what most people may not see in their entire lifetime. But he did not have enough humility to handle what he saw. So, the advantage he had turned into a disadvantage and almost cost him his life and his kingdom.

So, being in a position of advantage does not always prove advantageous to people. Yes, being in a position of advantage may give us the privilege of seeing, hearing or knowing what others may never know in their entire lifetime. But if we do not have the character to handle what we are privileged to see, hear or know, what is meant to be advantageous to us may end up becoming disastrous.

As we are further shown in the bible, David too experienced something similar to what King Nebuchadnezzar experienced. Look at how this is given to us in the bible:

“One evening David got up from his bed and walked around on the roof of the palace. From the roof he saw a woman bathing. The woman was very beautiful, and David sent someone to find out about her. The man said, “Isn’t this Bathsheba, the daughter of Eliam and the wife of Uriah the Hittite?”” (2Sam 11:2-3NIV)

What made David see beautiful Bathsheba while she was taking her bath that night? A walk on the roof of his palace! If he were not the king of Israel at the time, he may not have the advantage of walking on the roof of the palace. But he was the king. And was that a bad thing? No, it was not at all. In fact, it was God that chose him to be king. So, he had every right to walk on the roof of the palace.

However, because he did not have sufficient strength of character to handle what his walk on the roof of his palace gave him the privilege of seeing, he ended up becoming an adulterer, a deceiver and murderer. And if he too, like Nebuchadnezzar, had not been shown mercy, he would have lost his life and his kingdom because of the matter. (Cf. 2Sam 11&12)

So, don’t just desire to be in an advantageous position, where you can see things, hear things and know things, even the secrets of darkness. Also, learn to pray to God to build you up to be able to handle whatever your position of advantage in life may throw at you. Learn to pray as well that God will keep you from seeing, hearing or knowing things that you cannot handle without destroying yourself. Otherwise, someday, you may just realize that all the things that seem to be advantageous to you are nothing but curses to your life. And may that not be your portion, in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Cheers!

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Perfect your knowledge | By: J.O. Lawal | Date: September 04, 2024 | Series: Youth for Jesus | Number: Vol. 7, No. 17

“For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears.” (1Cor 13:9-10NIV)

What does Paul mean here? Well, he means exactly what he says, which is that we all know in part. In other words, none of us knows everything there is to know in life, regardless of how much we may think we know. That being the case, we should never act like we know it all.

See, even if we are the wisest among men, we still don’t know all there is to know about life, not even to talk about knowing all there is to know about God. That is why Solomon, in his wisdom, says, “Then I saw all that God has done. No one can comprehend what goes on under the sun. Despite all his efforts to search it out, man cannot discover its meaning. Even if a wise man claims he knows, he cannot really comprehend it.” (Eccl 8:17NIV)

Did you see that? Life is too much for any of us to completely comprehend. Yes, through the aid of the Spirit of God in us, each of us can know all that he needs to know to make sense out of living. But to know everything about life is beyond any of us. That perfection in knowledge will not come to us in this age but in the age to come that we are looking forward to.

Therefore, as I said before, we should never act like we know it all. That is the beginning of foolishness. Instead, first, we should learn to recognize our areas of inadequacy in knowledge. In other words, I must constantly know what I do not know and accept that I do not know it.

Of course, that I do not know something does not mean that I need to know it. I mean that it is not all knowledge that is useful to me. So, I don’t need to waste my time pursuing any form of knowledge that is useless or unprofitable to me. But if I must gain sufficient useful or needed knowledge in life, the key is to know what I do not know and accept that I do not know it. Otherwise, if demands should be made on me on the basis of what I assume or pretend to know, failure and disgrace are what will naturally follow.

The second way to respond to the fact that we know in part is to make effort to perfect our inadequacy in knowledge. That means instead for us to remain ignorant of what we need to know, whatever it may be, we should look out for those who know it and make effort to learn from them.

Yes, that may cost us something. True knowledge always costs people something. That is why many don’t make effort to perfect their inadequacy in knowledge. They are looking at how much they may end up paying for it. But it is not in all cases that knowledge costs money. There are times that all that it will cost us is humility, patience or (and) self-discipline. And if we are willing to pay the price, we will know what we need to know to move from where we are to where we should be.

Mind you, ignorance is also costly. In fact, a lot of times, it is costlier than knowledge. So, don’t keep yourself ignorant about God or about life, when and where you can learn and perfect your knowledge. Otherwise, you may end up being the enemy that will keep you stagnant for life.

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I have rejected him | By: J.O. Lawal | Date: August 28, 2024 | Series: Youth for Jesus | Number: Vol. 7, No. 15

“When they arrived, Samuel saw Eliab and thought, “Surely the LORD’s anointed stands here before the LORD.” But the LORD said to Samuel, “Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The LORD does not look at the things man looks at. Man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart.”” (1Sam 16:6-7NIV)

Why did God tell Samuel that He had rejected Eliab, Jesse’s first son, when he wanted to anoint him as king over Israel? We are not told in plain terms in the account. We are just told that even though his physical appearance and height were okay, they were not the qualities God was looking for in the man that He wanted to choose as king over Israel.

What qualities, then, was God looking for? Qualities of the heart! As we see in our opening text, God told Samuel that it was the heart of the person that He would choose as king that He was really concerned about and not the person’s outward appearance. Yes, it is natural for us, human beings, to fix our eyes on what we can see in people, when we are making decisions about them. And that is because unless God gives us revelations about what is going on inside them, we cannot know it.

But what is going on in people’s hearts is what really determines how they will ultimately turn out. So, if we make decisions about them only on the basis of the outward things we see about them, we may be wrong. And we are often wrong. But if we make decisions about them based on what is hidden in their hearts, we can never be wrong.

Now that is where God is different from us and, of course, greater than us. He makes His decisions about us all the time on the basis of what is hidden in our hearts and not on the basis of our outward appearance or disposition. Therefore, He is all the time right about us.

In any case, the point we are making is that God rejected Eliab as king over Israel because something was wrong with his heart. Mind you, the fact that He rejected this man shows that He had first considered him. But something within him made Him reject him. And what could that thing be?

As I said before, we are not told in plain terms in the account. But we do know from the bible that when Goliath came threatening the armies of Israel and David, Eliab’s youngest brother, began to ask questions about what the king would do for any man that killed this giant, Eliab got mad at him. He was so mad at him that he referred to him as proud and wicked. (Cf. 1Sam 17:26-28)

But was David indeed proud and wicked? The young man was simply concerned about the honour of God and of the nation of Israel. And that was why he wanted to know what would be done for the person that handled Goliath. But Eliab would not even allow him to talk. He just wanted him to shut up and get out of the camp.

What does that show us? Well, it shows us something about the inner life of Eliab. It shows us that he was an intolerant person, someone that would not be willing to listen to those under him and learn from them. It also shows us that he was someone that was lacking in ability to recognise talents and abilities.

David was his blood brother, a brother that grew up under his watch. Yet he could not see the warrior and leader in him. All he could see was an overpampered and braggadocios boy. How, then, would he, as king, be able to harness the human resources of an entire nation and make the most of them, if he could not recognise and harness the human resources in his father’s household?

Well, God may have other reasons for rejecting Eliab. But the points I shared above are the only things we can readily place our fingers on in the bible about the man’s character. And as far as I am concerned, they are enough points to disqualify anyone from being king over God’s people.

Now remember that pride, disobedience and excuses were the things that made God reject Saul as king. So, sometimes, those things that we do not consider as serious may just be what will disqualify us for certain positions of usefulness or advantage that God may want to put us in life. That is why we must not make any excuse for any wrong attitude we have in life. Instead, we must take advantage of the grace of God to destroy it. Otherwise, it may be the difference between where we are and where God wants us to be in life.

Cheers!

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Seeing correctly | By: J.O. Lawal | Date: August 21, 2024 | Series: Youth for Jesus | Number: Vol. 7, No. 14

“The word of the LORD came to me: “What do you see, Jeremiah?” “I see the branch of an almond tree,” I replied. The LORD said to me, “You have seen correctly, for I am watching to see that my word is fulfilled.”” (Jer 1:11-12NIV)

Why has God given us eyes? Obviously, it is so that we can see with them. But being able to see with our eyes is one thing; being able to see whatever we see with our eyes correctly is another thing. If we do not or cannot see correctly what is before us, then, whatever judgment or decision we are going to make about that thing is going to be faulty. All of this is why we all need and, in fact, want eyes that are sound.

But then, it is possible for us to have eyes that are sound and still not being seeing correctly. And that is because though we are looking, we are not making effort to concentrate and see what we actually need to see. Jesus, once while addressing the Jews, said that it is possible for one to be looking and not seeing what he is meant to see (Mark 4:12). That means even though that person is looking and seeing many things, he is not really seeing what is of relevance or benefit to him. And when we cannot see what is of relevance or benefit to us, we cannot take advantage of it for our progress or safety.

In our opening bible text, God asked Jeremiah, “What do you see?” And when he replied, God told him that he had seen correctly. If he had not seen correctly, there was no way he would have been able to comprehend or utilize what God had wanted to tell him about the matter at hand. But because he saw what God was showing him correctly, God was able to further instruct him about what He wanted him to do.

Why, then, was Jeremiah able to see what God wanted him to see correctly? It was because he was looking attentively. Once, when Ezekiel was having some visions of God, he was told by the angel sent to him that he would need to pay a close attention to what he was going to be shown and told. Otherwise, he was going to waste the opportunity he was being given to see certain things about the future of his people. (Cf. Ezek 40:1-4)

So, if we are going to be able to take advantage of whatever God is showing us or the happenings around us, we must pay attention to whatever we are seeing on purpose. Many who are slow learners today are so not because something is wrong with their brains but because they hardly pay attention on purpose to what they are being shown or taught.

Also, many who usually miss out on opportunities for advancement around them or who are often getting injured or losing things by accidents experience these things not because life is against them but because they hardly pay attention on purpose to what is happening around them. Yes, these ones have eyes that are good enough to see everything happening around them. But because they are never intent on seeing what could be of benefit or salvation to them from the things they can see, they often miss out on what is meant for their peace, protection or prosperity.

For example, when Ishmael, Hagar’s son, was dying of thirst in the desert, all her mother could do was sob and wait for him to die. But there was actually a well of water right where they were that they could drink from and live. Yet, until God spoke to Hagar and opened her eyes to see it, none of the two of them saw it, even though their eyes were wide open. (Cf. Gen 21:14-19)

Why did they not see it? First, it was because they were not intently looking for water in that place. And why were they not looking for water on purpose there? It was most likely because they thought it was useless to do so, seeing that the place was a desert.

In the same vein, there are times that we don’t see certain things we are meant to see in life because of assumptions. We just assume that those things cannot just be where we are. So, we don’t look out for them on purpose. But those things may just be there. And it is when someone else lays hands on them and begins to utilize them for his own progress or safety that we will wake up and begin to wish we too had been more careful and attentive in looking. But time may have run out on us by then. So, don’t ever again assume that something cannot be somewhere until you have diligently looked or sought for it. Otherwise, your assumption may end up being a very costly one.

Another reason Hagar and her son did not see that well of water before God spoke to them was that it was not revealed to them. As I pointed out before, they were in a desert. And that was a very unusual place to find a well of water. Yet it was there. So, if it had not been divinely revealed to them, even if they had been looking out for it on purpose, they may not have seen it.

That, then, means that it takes divine revelations to see what we need to see in certain places in life. Otherwise, however hard we look for those things, we will not see or find them. Thankfully, God has promised to show us great and unsearchable things of life, if we will learn to pray to Him (Jer 33;3). So, if we want our eyes to be seeing the things we need to see in life and to be seeing them correctly, even in unusual places, we must learn to pray to God for divine revelations. And as we do so, our eyes will daily see correctly all that we need to see for our progress, elevation and safety in life.

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Manifesting foolishness | By: J.O. Lawal | Date: August 14, 2024 | Series: Youth for Jesus | Number: Vol. 7, No. 14

“Even as he walks along the road, the fool lacks sense and shows everyone how stupid he is.” (Eccl 10:3NIV)

Have you noticed that children often spend longer time than expected when they are sent on errands by their parents, guardians, teachers or other elderly ones? Why? One main reason is that they get easily distracted on the way. A child sent on an errand, for instance, may stand to look at the movement of a butterfly from one flower to another for some minutes before coming back to himself and to need to hurry back and complete the errand he has been sent to carry out. And by the time he gets back, he may have to receive some beating for messing some things up by not being on time in handling what he has been sent to do.

But then, it is not only children that lose their presence of mind or become absent-minded when on their way to doing something. A lot of times, adults too lose their presence of mind when they are on their way to doing things. They may not get distracted by a butterfly or an earthworm, though some of them can get distracted by a dancing masquerade or by some people fighting. But they can forget totally that they need to be safe in order to get to wherever they are going and get whatever they need to do there done.

For instance, often we see our drivers and motorcyclists drive recklessly on our roads because they are in a hurry to get somewhere. But if they should be involved in an accident through their recklessness or carelessness, will they still be able to get to wherever they are going on time? What about what they want to do? Will they still be able to do it? Then if they should end up dead or in a hospital, what will that do to their dreams in life or to their families and other loved ones?

Also, we often see our young men and young men pressing their phones while going from one place to another or blocking their ears with earphones because they are listening to some music? And we have had some hit and killed or injured by ongoing vehicles because of this. Is it, then, wrong to use phones or to listen to music? No! But doing so while on the road or while driving prevents you from functioning with the required level of concentration you need to be safe. And regardless of how important what you are doing with that phone at that time may be, it cannot be as important as the safety of your life or of others. So, it can wait.

But will you allow it to wait? Will you allow the pressing of your phone to wait, while you are walking or driving along a road, in order for you and others to be safe? Will you slow down a little bit with your vehicle and observe traffic rules in order for you and others to arrive at your destination safely? And will you ignore that funny scene in order to be on time in handling that job or business or study?

Well, as we see in our opening bible text, we can tell if someone is a fool or not by merely looking at the way he walks or drives or what he does while walking or driving along the road. And a foolish person will only be concerned about arriving at his destination when walking or driving along the road. He will not consider the danger his behaviour and actions on the road can pose to him, his loved ones and his society as a whole.

Thus, you don’t need to be well acquainted with someone before you know whether they are foolish or not. By merely looking at their conduct while they are going from one place to another, you will be able to tell. In like manner, you don’t need to wait for someone to tell you that you are foolish before you know that you are. Just by considering how you have been acting and behaving on the road since you came of age, you should be able to tell.

At any rate, if you can you see that you have been manifesting foolishness in this sense, just repent right away and start doing what is right.

Cheers!

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Just one act of foolishness | By: J.O. Lawal| Date: August 07, 2024 | Series: Youth for Jesus | Number: Vol. 7, No. 13

“As dead flies give perfume a bad smell, so a little folly outweighs wisdom and honor.” (Eccl 10:1NIV)

What is Solomon talking about in our opening bible text? He is talking about the need for us to be consistent in living wise and honourable lives. And why do we need to do that? It is because just one act of foolishness or dishonour can ruin a reputation that has taken us a whole lifetime to build.

For instance, David had a reputation for being a man after God’s own heart (Acts 13:22). But on the night that he decided to sleep with Uriah’s wife, he messed up everything for himself. He ruined his reputation as a god-fearing man and opened the door of his family for a devouring sword of judgment to devour it (2Sam 11-19). So, the bible summarises his life and reign in this way: “For David had done what was right in the eyes of the LORD and had not failed to keep any of the LORD’s commands all the days of his life — except in the case of Uriah the Hittite.” (1Kings 15:5NIV)

What about Moses? God testified that he was faithful as a servant in all His house (Num 12:7). In other words, in everything God required of this man, he pleased Him well. But just one act of folly from him, just one act of disobedience from him, and he lost the opportunity to lead the children of Israel into the Promised Land. (Cf. Num 20)

Now was what Moses’ life dream? Was it not to lead the children of Israel into the Promised Land? That was what he lived and fought for. That was what he endured years of suffering and loneliness for. Yet when he disobeyed God’s instruction at the waters of Meribah, the very thing he had laboured and longed for was taken away from him. How sad!

In like manner, there have been great husbands who lost their homes and respect because of just one act of foolishness, just as there have been wonderful wives who lost their homes and honour because of just one moment of immorality. Then there have been faithful employees who ruined their honour and their chances to become great leaders in life by listening to some foolish colleagues just once. And what about those young men and women who ruined their chances of getting quality education or who contracted life-threatening diseases because of just one moment of sexual immorality? The list goes on and on.

Well, the point of it all is that those of us who are living by the wisdom of the word of God must be consistent in doing so. We must not, for any reason, ignore the wisdom of God because we want to gratify the cravings of our flesh or please ourselves just for one moment. Otherwise, the consequences of that one moment of foolishness may ruin our entire lives, homes or reputations permanently and without remedy.

Now that is Solomon’s message to us in our opening bible text. My prayer is that you will not do any wrong thing, however little it may seem, that will outweigh or make a mess of all the honour and prosperity that you have gained by the wisdom of God at work in your life, in Jesus’ name. Amen.

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Miserable comforters| By: J.O. Lawal| Date: July 31, 2024 | Series: Youth for Jesus | Number: Vol. 7, No. 12

“I have heard many things like these; miserable comforters are you all!” (Job 16:2NIV)

Those were Job’s words to his friends who had come to comfort him during the days of his pains and sorrow. But why would he speak like that to them? Well, as the account goes, because of certain conversations that God had with Satan about him, he ended up losing all his children and possessions and even his health. And when three of his friends heard about these happenings, they met by agreement and came to comfort him. (Cf. Job 1&2)

But was Job really comforted by their presence? Evidently, he was not comforted at all by their coming or presence. Otherwise, he would not have used such strong words that we have in our opening bible text in describing them. He referred to all of them as miserable comforters? Why? It was because their words did not bring him comfort at all but condemnation and grief.

You need to read the whole book of Job in order to appreciate the force of what Job said about these friends of his. These men did not offer him comfort at all through their words. Instead, they just falsely accused him and also condemned him. For instance, here is what one of them, Eliphaz, said to him:

“Is not your wickedness great? Are not your sins endless? You demanded security from your brothers for no reason; you stripped men of their clothing, leaving them naked. You gave no water to the weary and you withheld food from the hungry, though you were a powerful man, owning land — an honored man, living on it. And you sent widows away empty-handed and broke the strength of the fatherless. That is why snares are all around you, why sudden peril terrifies you, why it is so dark you cannot see, and why a flood of water covers you.” (Job 22:5-11NIV)

Where did this man get all these things? Even God said that Job was a blameless and upright man, one who feared God and shunned evil (Job 1:8). Yet this man referred to him as a wicked person, an oppressor. Where did he learn that about Job? It is clear that he was either deliberately lying against him or reacting to some unfounded rumours that he had heard about him.

In any case, if Job’s own friends could say such things about him, what, then, would his enemies be saying about him? That would be beyond imagination. And you can now see why Job, as we see in our opening text, referred to all these friends of his as miserable comforters. On the one hand, they had nothing good to offer him or contribute to his faith and strength at the time. On the other hand, they were terribly hurting him with their words. So, it would have been better, if they had not shown up before him at all.

Interestingly, when God was set to restore Job, He first rebuked these friends of his severely. He told them that He was angry with them and would require them to offer some burnt offerings because of their errors and to also meet Job to pray for them. Otherwise, trouble would come upon them for the terrible job they had done as Job’s comforters. (Cf. Job 42:7-10)

Now what is the point of all this? It is that God is watching the way we treat those who are in trouble or in pains. Yes, they may have been the source of their own problems. But as long as we are a part of their lives or are privileged to be around them, we are not to add to their sorrow or pains. And we are also not to fold our arms and watch them suffer or get destroyed by their trouble. Instead, we are to offer them comfort, by words of mouth and by our actions, according to the measure of grace God has given to us.

The word of God says, “Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God.” (2Cor 1:3-4NIV) Did you see that? One of the reasons God is comforting us in every area of our lives isn’t that we may add to the pains and torments of those around us that are suffering by sitting in judgment over them. Rather, it is that we may comfort them with the same comfort we ourselves have received from Him.

Then observe that we are told in this text that we can actually comfort those in any kind of trouble. In other words, even if the people we are dealing with are the source of their own problems, God is still able to use us to comfort them, heal them and set them in the right direction. But He cannot do these things through us, if are insensitivity and judgmental towards them and our words to them are full of criticism, lies or hate.

Therefore, let us rid ourselves of all forms of insensitivity, slander, hate and bitter and unclean criticisms, so that we can be true and not miserable comforters to the hurting people around us. Otherwise, as Job’s friends incurred the anger of God through the bad way they treated him in that low moment of his life, we too may invite His anger and punishment on ourselves for being bad towards those that need our comfort.

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Use it to prove yourself | By: J.O. Lawal | Date: July 24, 2024 | Series: Youth for Jesus | Number: Vol. 7, No. 11

“Now Joseph had been taken down to Egypt. Potiphar, an Egyptian who was one of Pharaoh’s officials, the captain of the guard, bought him from the Ishmaelites who had taken him there. The LORD was with Joseph and he prospered, and he lived in the house of his Egyptian master. When his master saw that the LORD was with him and that the LORD gave him success in everything he did, Joseph found favor in his eyes and became his attendant. Potiphar put him in charge of his household, and he entrusted to his care everything he owned.” (Gen 39:1-5NIV)

One of the things we must keep in mind is that we are not in charge of life – God is. And because we are not in charge of life, we cannot make certain things in life go the way we want them to go. But if we will learn to see God in whatever situation we may find ourselves and also learn to make the most of that situation, God will surely use the situation to bring about the fulfilment of His good purpose for our lives.

Now that is one of the things we learn from the bible story of Joseph. He was sold to Egypt as a young man. He was sold by his own brothers because they were jealous of him. But did he allow that to destroy him? No! Did he see that as the death of all the dreams of greatness God had shown him? No!

What, then, did he do? He sought to use his position as a slave to learn and make himself fit for greatness in life. In other words, he looked beyond his low status in life as slave to what he could use that position to learn and accomplish in life. Therefore, as we see in our opening text, it was not very long at all before he distinguished himself to his master as someone more than a slave, as someone that was absolutely reliable and a great manager of people and resources.

Now because Joseph distinguished himself in this manner, his master, Potiphar, put him in charge of everything he owned. Thin about that. The man entrusted him with everything he owned, home and abroad, even though he was only slave, even though he did not know his family background and even though he had received no recommendation letter from anyone about him. Why? The young man used his low position to prove himself as someone more than a slave.

We too need to learn to prove ourselves to be worthy of people’s trust and of great positions in life wherever we are. People, if they are not stupid, racial or selfish, will not just put us in great positions in life because we desire them or because we have dreamt about them. Rather, they will put us in positions of greatness in life because we have proved ourselves worthy of them.

How do we prove ourselves worthy of great positions in life? It is by handling whatever our hands find to do where we are in great and excellent ways. In other words, even if what is entrusted to us where we ae is something little or insignificant, if we will give it the touch of greatness and significance, people will take note of it and of us. And that will inspire them to try us with bigger things.

But if we are handling whatever is committed into our hands loosely and without seriousness, we will just be proving ourselves to be loose and unserious. And no one, in their right senses, will ever see us as fit for any kind of greatness, even though we have been recommended to them by very important people in life.

For instance, how do people become head of cleaners in most of our companies or organisations? It is usually through the way they handle their jobs as ordinary cleaners. Yes, cleaning jobs workplace (and I am not referring to those who have set up cleaning businesses here) are among the most demeaning jobs you can give to anyone in today’s world. But if someone can rise to be the head cleaner in an organisation, that person will be proving that he can be a leader in handling something better, if circumstances of life permit him.

Well, the point of it all is that we must not allow ourselves to become useless in life because we are not yet occupying a great position. Instead, we are to use whatever position we are in life, however low it may seem, to learn and prove ourselves as deserving something better. Then God, who comforts the downcast and raises up beggars from the dust, will cause His favour to rest upon us and use that position as a stepping stone to take us from where we are to where He wants us to be in life.

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He is on the lookout | By: J.O. Lawal | Date: July 17, 2024 | Series: Youth for Jesus | Number: Vol. 7, No. 10

“For the eyes of the LORD range throughout the earth to strengthen those whose hearts are fully committed to him. You have done a foolish thing, and from now on you will be at war.” (2Chron 16:9NIV)

What is the first thing we see in our opening text? It is that God is always on the lookout for certain individuals? And what sort of individuals is He on the lookout for? it is those whose hearts are fully committed to Him.

Now what we have here, of course, is similar to what our Lord Jesus says about Him. He says God is seeking those who will worship Him in spirit and in truth (John 4:23). Why is He looking for such individuals? As we further see in our opening text, He is looking for them to equip them. And what does He want to equip them for? He wants to equip with whatever they need to serve His purpose here on earth.

So, a man may not have great and shining abilities or opportunities to do big things in life. But if his heart is fully committed to God, He will take him up and equip him with all the abilities, opportunities, time and people he needs to do things that will shock those in his world.

Think of David, for example. What special abilities or advantages did he have that qualified him to be king over Israel? None! He was not the strongest in the land, neither was he the most handsome. He was not even the eldest son of his father. That explains why Samuel had already checked out all his elder brothers before he was eventually sent for. (Cf. 1Sam 16).

Now, of course, David had some abilities and advantages, and there is no man that does not have any at all. He could sing well and also play the harp well, for instance. And these abilities qualified him to be a top musician of the king. But did they qualify him to be king? No!

Nevertheless, because he was a young man after God’s heart, he was found and chosen by Him. Look at the way Samuel announced this to King Saul, when he began to misbehave:

“But now your kingdom will not endure; the LORD has sought out a man after his own heart and appointed him leader of his people, because you have not kept the LORD’s command.” (1Sam 13:14NIV)

Did you see that? While Saul was busy doing his own thing, the Lord also was busy searching the whole land for someone after His heart that He may appoint to replace him as king over Israel. And in the process, He found David. So, even though he was but a boy, He anointed him with His Holy Spirit and began to equip him with the wisdom, boldness, skills and people that he would need to be the kind of king and leader he was meant to be. Then, years later, David would say this about how God raised and equipped him:

“For who is God besides the LORD? And who is the Rock except our God? It is God who arms me with strength and makes my way perfect. He makes my feet like the feet of a deer; he enables me to stand on the heights. He trains my hands for battle; my arms can bend a bow of bronze. You give me your shield of victory, and your right hand sustains me; you stoop down to make me great.” (Ps 18:31-35NIV)

Did you see that? David said that it was God that trained him to be a warrior and that it was His help that made him great. And all these things happened to him because his heart was fully devoted to God.

In like manner, if we will totally set our hearts on God, so that we may learn to please Him every day, He will equally set us apart to be equipped for great things in this life, regardless of what low place we are or how handicapped we may be. But are we going to totally set our hearts and affection on Him and on pleasing Him? Am I going to totally set my heart and affection on Him and on pleasing Him? That, as I pointed out before, is what will determine what things He is able to use me for and what heights He is able to take me to.

My prayer, then, for you and me is that our hearts will be daily drawn by the Holy Spirit to love God and to seek to please Him all the time. Amen.

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