Learn to draw from Him | By: J.O. Lawal | Date: July 10, 2024 | Series: Youth for Jesus | Number: Vol. 7, No. 9

“David was greatly distressed because the men were talking of stoning him; each one was bitter in spirit because of his sons and daughters. But David found strength in the LORD his God.” (1Sam 30:6NIV)

Why was David greatly distressed on the occasion mentioned in our opening text? It was because his men, his mighty men of valour, were talking about stoning him to death. But why would they want to do that? These were men of war. These were men that the bible says so much about their exploits and their devotion to David. Yet they wanted to stone him on this occasion. What sort of tragedy could have befallen them?

Well, as bible account shows us, the reason was that all these men had lost their wives and children to Amalekite raiders. And whose fault was that? It was largely David’s fault. David was their leader. And while they were moving around and fighting all kinds of battle from place to place, he should have thought about leaving some men behind to guard their families and possessions. So, the reason they lost their families and children to those raiders was that he was negligent to some extent about the welfare of his people. (Cf. 1Sam 27:1-12 & 30:1-2)

But then, David was not entirely to blame for what befell them. The men with him too should have thought about counselling him to leave some people behind for the protection of their family members. But it is not said in Scriptures that any of them counselled him about this at all. If he had been counselled by at least one of them and had refused to listen, it would have been a different thing entirely. But since none of them was open-minded enough at the time to think of the protection of their families while they would be away, they should not have put the whole blame on David.

Sadly, they put the whole blame on him, to the extent that they even talked about stoning him for their loss, as though that would solve the problem. And as I said before, we are talking about mighty warriors here. Yet their hearts failed them on this occasion. Their hearts so failed them that all they could think of doing was cry. And they cried until they had no more strength to cry. But did that change their situation? No!

Now David too cried and wept like them and with them. Also, he accepted his error of judgment as their leader and did not quarrel with them for talking about stoning him. But he did more than crying and accepting his failure. He also went on to strengthen himself in the Lord. In other words, he reminded himself of the presence of God with him and on his side. And he drew his strength from this to pray and to also pursue and destroy the raiders that had captured their families. So, he not only recovered all that they had taken away from him and his men; he also brought back great wealth. Hallelujah! (Cf. 1Sam 30:6-31)

What, then, do we learn from this? It is that each of us must learn to draw strength from the Lord ourselves. Yes, we may have great people of faith who love and care about us in our lives and around us. But there may be times when their faith may not be strong enough or strong at all to help us. In fact, there may be times when, instead of strengthening us with their faith, they may simply be pulling us down with their fear and unbelief.

David’s men, as we see in Scriptures, were all warriors. Not only that, all of them believed in him and in the anointing of God upon his life as their future king. Otherwise, they would not have left the comfort of their homes with their families to wander from place to place with him. Yet on the occasion mentioned in our opening text, these men’s faith failed them; their faith was of no use to David. And if he had not learnt before that time to draw strength from the Lord, he and his men may have lost their families and possessions forever. That, of course, may have ruined God’s plans for his life as the future king of Israel.

Remember Job too. Remember that even though all his three friends that came to comfort him during his trials were men of faith in God, none of them was able to help him. Their faith could not help him find healing or deliverance. In fact, they did not even exercise their faith for his healing at all. They did not come together to pray or intercede for him. Instead, they just abused and condemned him unjustly. So, in the long run, he had to tell them to shut up, for they were nothing but miserable comforters and worthless physicians to him. And if he had not learnt to trust God by himself to receive his restoration, the unkind words of those friends of his could have made him give up and die before his time. (Cf. Job 13:4-5 & 16:2)

So, don’t think the faith of your parents, friends, husband, wife, siblings or church leaders will always be strong enough to support you in moments of trials. Yes, it will be good for that to always be case. And it can always be the case with some of the people in your life. But what if it is not the case? What if the faith of this loving and loyal friend, partner or church leader happens not to be strong enough to help you in a situation, will you be able to trust God by yourself and still walk in victory?

That, of course, is not a question you can answer carelessly. But it will be good that you are able to say, “Yes, I will be able to trust God myself to walk in victory over any situation, even if I cannot find any faith person supporting me?” And you will be able to say so, if you will daily learn to take your walk with the Lord seriously and to draw from Him the strength, courage and any other thing you may need to stay victorious in life.

Cheers!

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