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Separate yourself from it | Pastor J.O. Lawal

And if you do not want to come under such judgment, you had better separate yourself right away from that wrong relationship or friendship. My prayer is that you will be filled with the wisdom, boldness and strength of mind you need to do so, in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Date: September 08, 2021 | Series: Youth for Jesus | Number: Vol. 4, No. 17

“When Jehoshaphat king of Judah returned safely to his palace in Jerusalem, Jehu the seer, the son of Hanani, went out to meet him and said to the king, “Should you help the wicked and love those who hate the LORD? Because of this, the wrath of the LORD is upon you.”” (2Chron 19:1-3NIV)

Why was the wrath of the Lord upon king Jehoshaphat? It was because he joined a wicked man in acting against the will of God. As the story goes, Jehoshaphat once visited the king of Israel, Ahab, because the latter was his in-law. But Ahab, as the bible tells us, was a very wicked man. In fact, he was so wicked that the bible says of him, “There was never a man like Ahab, who sold himself to do evil in the eyes of the LORD, urged on by Jezebel his wife. He behaved in the vilest manner by going after idols, like the Amorites the LORD drove out before Israel.” (1Kings 21:25-26NIV)

So, Ahab was not just a wicked man but also an idolater. This being the case, Jehoshaphat, being a true lover and worshipper of God, should not have allied himself to this man by marriage or in any other way at all. That is because there is no way you will be in alliance with a wicked person and not be unduly exposed to situations that will want to make you sin against God (Deut 7:3-4). But you know, most times, in politics, people care more about perceptions than realities. They care more about favouring public sentiments than doing what is right. And this, perhaps, was the reason Jehoshaphat ended up having Ahab as his in-law.

Therefore, on this occasion that he visited him, the man requested that he join him in going to battle against the people of Ramoth Gilead. And since there was an alliance between them, he accepted to go with him. But he also requested that they should consult God first to know whether they should go to that battle or not. And when they did, the man of God, Macaiah, made it clear to them that disaster was what they would meet, if they should go to that battle. But instead for them to listen to his voice, Ahab would not let them. So, they went against the will of God and Ahab met his death in the battle, just as the man of God had said. (Cf. 2Chro 18)

Now Jehoshaphat himself would have been killed in that battle, if God had not been merciful to him (2Chro 18:30-32). But what was he doing on that battle ground in the first place? Why would he go against what he knew to be the will of God in order to please people? He could have told Ahab that he would not go with him since God had shown them that disaster was looming. That, of course, may have affected their alliance. But he would not have been exposed to destruction, as he was, or come under the wrath of God.

What is the point of all this? It is that you should watch the kind of association you keep. Paul says, “Don’t be deceived. Bad company corrupts good character.” (Cf. 1Cor 15:33) That is to say that there is no way you will maintain friendship with an evil or wicked person and not be corrupted at some point and to some extent, regardless how much you love God. So, don’t get involved in any kind of association or friendship that has a potential to put pressure on you or entice you or manipulate or seduce you to do evil or act against the will of God. Otherwise, you will have fallen into some trap of death, immorality, idolatry or greed before you know what is happening to you. And if God’s mercy is not extended to you, that may just be what will destroy your life or faith permanently.

Then, if you are already in a friendship or association that is constantly making you go against what you know to be the will of God, you need to separate yourself from it while you still can. I am saying this because I want you to know that the reason you have not yet been destroyed or gotten into some big trouble because of this relationship is that God is being patient with you and merciful to you.

But as we know through Scriptures, His patience with sinners is not forever. At some point, if they will not repent, He will have to do the needful and judge them (Rev 2:20-23). And if you do not want to come under such judgment, you had better separate yourself right away from that wrong relationship or friendship. My prayer is that you will be filled with the wisdom, boldness and strength of mind you need to do so, in Jesus’ name. Amen.

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