Title: Have genuine concern for them

Series: Youth for Jesus
Number: Vol. 8, No.15

“Moreover, from the twentieth year of King Artaxerxes, when I was appointed to be their governor in the land of Judah, until his thirty-second year—twelve years—neither I nor my brothers ate the food allotted to the governor. But the earlier governors—those preceding me—placed a heavy burden on the people and took forty shekels of silver from them in addition to food and wine. Their assistants also lorded it over the people. But out of reverence for God I did not act like that. Instead, I devoted myself to the work on this wall. All my men were assembled there for the work; we did not acquire any land.” (Nehemiah 5:14-16NIV)

Those were the words of Nehemiah, as he gave some account of his leadership over the people of Judah. And he penned down these words for us to show us a very important quality of a true leader. And what is that quality? It is a show of genuine concern for people.

See, a true leader does not just lead because he has to or because no one else will do so or because of what he hopes to gain. Rather, he leads because he is genuinely concerned about the welfare of others and also because he believes that he has what it takes to actually care for them. Therefore, where he does not think that he has what it takes to lead others and see them adequately cared for, he will graciously and humbly refuse to lead.

For instance, after defeating the Midianites, the people of Israel requested that Gideon would become their king. But he humbly declined. And why? Was it because he was being modest? No! Rather, it was because he knew that God had not chosen him to be their king but just a deliverer. So, he would not allow them to compel or entice him to take a position in their lives that was not meant for him but for God. (Cf. Judges 8:22-23)

But becoming king over the Israelites would have enabled Gideon to accumulate lots of money, wives, concubines, servants and lands. Yet he would not become their king. And that was because he wasn’t just concerned about himself and what he could possibly gain by becoming their king; he was also concerned about their welfare. He was concerned about what would become of them, if he should take a role in their lives and affairs that God had not made him fit for.

Now that’s how a true leader reasons. He is not just concerned about himself but also concerned about the people. And where he can see that his rights, interests or privileges as a leader will harm the people instead of bless them, he will let go of those privileges or even his position. And that is also what we see in Nehemiah. Though this man was the governor of his people, he would not fully utilise his rights and privileges as governor. Instead, he devoted himself to working for their protection and prosperity.

Why? The first reason was that he could see that the burden of taking care of his office as governor was too heavy for the people to bear. And if he had insisted on utilising all his rights and privileges as governor, he would simply have increased their sufferings. But he would not do that because he had genuine concern for them.

The second reason was that he had the fear of God in him. If he had not had the fear of God, he would still have placed a heavy burden on the people, even though he could see that they could not bear it. All that would be on his mind was that it was his right to do so.

Sadly, we have many leaders all around the world, including parents and church leaders, that are like that. They are always more concerned about the rights, benefits and enjoyment of their positions than the welfare of the people they are leaders over. No wonder a lot of people are suffering in the world today, even though they have leaders over them that are meant to alleviate their sufferings. The leadership over them is not bringing them the comfort they need but is simply adding to their miseries. What a shame!

In any case, the point of all this is that you should learn to show genuine concern for those under you, if you are a leader in any capacity. Otherwise, you are occupying a wrong position and should promptly excuse yourself from there before God Himself removes or replaces you, something that may be too painful for you to bear.

Cheers!

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