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Miserable comforters| By: J.O. Lawal| Date: July 31, 2024 | Series: Youth for Jesus | Number: Vol. 7, No. 12

“I have heard many things like these; miserable comforters are you all!” (Job 16:2NIV)

Those were Job’s words to his friends who had come to comfort him during the days of his pains and sorrow. But why would he speak like that to them? Well, as the account goes, because of certain conversations that God had with Satan about him, he ended up losing all his children and possessions and even his health. And when three of his friends heard about these happenings, they met by agreement and came to comfort him. (Cf. Job 1&2)

But was Job really comforted by their presence? Evidently, he was not comforted at all by their coming or presence. Otherwise, he would not have used such strong words that we have in our opening bible text in describing them. He referred to all of them as miserable comforters? Why? It was because their words did not bring him comfort at all but condemnation and grief.

You need to read the whole book of Job in order to appreciate the force of what Job said about these friends of his. These men did not offer him comfort at all through their words. Instead, they just falsely accused him and also condemned him. For instance, here is what one of them, Eliphaz, said to him:

“Is not your wickedness great? Are not your sins endless? You demanded security from your brothers for no reason; you stripped men of their clothing, leaving them naked. You gave no water to the weary and you withheld food from the hungry, though you were a powerful man, owning land — an honored man, living on it. And you sent widows away empty-handed and broke the strength of the fatherless. That is why snares are all around you, why sudden peril terrifies you, why it is so dark you cannot see, and why a flood of water covers you.” (Job 22:5-11NIV)

Where did this man get all these things? Even God said that Job was a blameless and upright man, one who feared God and shunned evil (Job 1:8). Yet this man referred to him as a wicked person, an oppressor. Where did he learn that about Job? It is clear that he was either deliberately lying against him or reacting to some unfounded rumours that he had heard about him.

In any case, if Job’s own friends could say such things about him, what, then, would his enemies be saying about him? That would be beyond imagination. And you can now see why Job, as we see in our opening text, referred to all these friends of his as miserable comforters. On the one hand, they had nothing good to offer him or contribute to his faith and strength at the time. On the other hand, they were terribly hurting him with their words. So, it would have been better, if they had not shown up before him at all.

Interestingly, when God was set to restore Job, He first rebuked these friends of his severely. He told them that He was angry with them and would require them to offer some burnt offerings because of their errors and to also meet Job to pray for them. Otherwise, trouble would come upon them for the terrible job they had done as Job’s comforters. (Cf. Job 42:7-10)

Now what is the point of all this? It is that God is watching the way we treat those who are in trouble or in pains. Yes, they may have been the source of their own problems. But as long as we are a part of their lives or are privileged to be around them, we are not to add to their sorrow or pains. And we are also not to fold our arms and watch them suffer or get destroyed by their trouble. Instead, we are to offer them comfort, by words of mouth and by our actions, according to the measure of grace God has given to us.

The word of God says, “Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God.” (2Cor 1:3-4NIV) Did you see that? One of the reasons God is comforting us in every area of our lives isn’t that we may add to the pains and torments of those around us that are suffering by sitting in judgment over them. Rather, it is that we may comfort them with the same comfort we ourselves have received from Him.

Then observe that we are told in this text that we can actually comfort those in any kind of trouble. In other words, even if the people we are dealing with are the source of their own problems, God is still able to use us to comfort them, heal them and set them in the right direction. But He cannot do these things through us, if are insensitivity and judgmental towards them and our words to them are full of criticism, lies or hate.

Therefore, let us rid ourselves of all forms of insensitivity, slander, hate and bitter and unclean criticisms, so that we can be true and not miserable comforters to the hurting people around us. Otherwise, as Job’s friends incurred the anger of God through the bad way they treated him in that low moment of his life, we too may invite His anger and punishment on ourselves for being bad towards those that need our comfort.

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Use it to prove yourself | By: J.O. Lawal | Date: July 24, 2024 | Series: Youth for Jesus | Number: Vol. 7, No. 11

“Now Joseph had been taken down to Egypt. Potiphar, an Egyptian who was one of Pharaoh’s officials, the captain of the guard, bought him from the Ishmaelites who had taken him there. The LORD was with Joseph and he prospered, and he lived in the house of his Egyptian master. When his master saw that the LORD was with him and that the LORD gave him success in everything he did, Joseph found favor in his eyes and became his attendant. Potiphar put him in charge of his household, and he entrusted to his care everything he owned.” (Gen 39:1-5NIV)

One of the things we must keep in mind is that we are not in charge of life – God is. And because we are not in charge of life, we cannot make certain things in life go the way we want them to go. But if we will learn to see God in whatever situation we may find ourselves and also learn to make the most of that situation, God will surely use the situation to bring about the fulfilment of His good purpose for our lives.

Now that is one of the things we learn from the bible story of Joseph. He was sold to Egypt as a young man. He was sold by his own brothers because they were jealous of him. But did he allow that to destroy him? No! Did he see that as the death of all the dreams of greatness God had shown him? No!

What, then, did he do? He sought to use his position as a slave to learn and make himself fit for greatness in life. In other words, he looked beyond his low status in life as slave to what he could use that position to learn and accomplish in life. Therefore, as we see in our opening text, it was not very long at all before he distinguished himself to his master as someone more than a slave, as someone that was absolutely reliable and a great manager of people and resources.

Now because Joseph distinguished himself in this manner, his master, Potiphar, put him in charge of everything he owned. Thin about that. The man entrusted him with everything he owned, home and abroad, even though he was only slave, even though he did not know his family background and even though he had received no recommendation letter from anyone about him. Why? The young man used his low position to prove himself as someone more than a slave.

We too need to learn to prove ourselves to be worthy of people’s trust and of great positions in life wherever we are. People, if they are not stupid, racial or selfish, will not just put us in great positions in life because we desire them or because we have dreamt about them. Rather, they will put us in positions of greatness in life because we have proved ourselves worthy of them.

How do we prove ourselves worthy of great positions in life? It is by handling whatever our hands find to do where we are in great and excellent ways. In other words, even if what is entrusted to us where we ae is something little or insignificant, if we will give it the touch of greatness and significance, people will take note of it and of us. And that will inspire them to try us with bigger things.

But if we are handling whatever is committed into our hands loosely and without seriousness, we will just be proving ourselves to be loose and unserious. And no one, in their right senses, will ever see us as fit for any kind of greatness, even though we have been recommended to them by very important people in life.

For instance, how do people become head of cleaners in most of our companies or organisations? It is usually through the way they handle their jobs as ordinary cleaners. Yes, cleaning jobs workplace (and I am not referring to those who have set up cleaning businesses here) are among the most demeaning jobs you can give to anyone in today’s world. But if someone can rise to be the head cleaner in an organisation, that person will be proving that he can be a leader in handling something better, if circumstances of life permit him.

Well, the point of it all is that we must not allow ourselves to become useless in life because we are not yet occupying a great position. Instead, we are to use whatever position we are in life, however low it may seem, to learn and prove ourselves as deserving something better. Then God, who comforts the downcast and raises up beggars from the dust, will cause His favour to rest upon us and use that position as a stepping stone to take us from where we are to where He wants us to be in life.

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He is on the lookout | By: J.O. Lawal | Date: July 17, 2024 | Series: Youth for Jesus | Number: Vol. 7, No. 10

“For the eyes of the LORD range throughout the earth to strengthen those whose hearts are fully committed to him. You have done a foolish thing, and from now on you will be at war.” (2Chron 16:9NIV)

What is the first thing we see in our opening text? It is that God is always on the lookout for certain individuals? And what sort of individuals is He on the lookout for? it is those whose hearts are fully committed to Him.

Now what we have here, of course, is similar to what our Lord Jesus says about Him. He says God is seeking those who will worship Him in spirit and in truth (John 4:23). Why is He looking for such individuals? As we further see in our opening text, He is looking for them to equip them. And what does He want to equip them for? He wants to equip with whatever they need to serve His purpose here on earth.

So, a man may not have great and shining abilities or opportunities to do big things in life. But if his heart is fully committed to God, He will take him up and equip him with all the abilities, opportunities, time and people he needs to do things that will shock those in his world.

Think of David, for example. What special abilities or advantages did he have that qualified him to be king over Israel? None! He was not the strongest in the land, neither was he the most handsome. He was not even the eldest son of his father. That explains why Samuel had already checked out all his elder brothers before he was eventually sent for. (Cf. 1Sam 16).

Now, of course, David had some abilities and advantages, and there is no man that does not have any at all. He could sing well and also play the harp well, for instance. And these abilities qualified him to be a top musician of the king. But did they qualify him to be king? No!

Nevertheless, because he was a young man after God’s heart, he was found and chosen by Him. Look at the way Samuel announced this to King Saul, when he began to misbehave:

“But now your kingdom will not endure; the LORD has sought out a man after his own heart and appointed him leader of his people, because you have not kept the LORD’s command.” (1Sam 13:14NIV)

Did you see that? While Saul was busy doing his own thing, the Lord also was busy searching the whole land for someone after His heart that He may appoint to replace him as king over Israel. And in the process, He found David. So, even though he was but a boy, He anointed him with His Holy Spirit and began to equip him with the wisdom, boldness, skills and people that he would need to be the kind of king and leader he was meant to be. Then, years later, David would say this about how God raised and equipped him:

“For who is God besides the LORD? And who is the Rock except our God? It is God who arms me with strength and makes my way perfect. He makes my feet like the feet of a deer; he enables me to stand on the heights. He trains my hands for battle; my arms can bend a bow of bronze. You give me your shield of victory, and your right hand sustains me; you stoop down to make me great.” (Ps 18:31-35NIV)

Did you see that? David said that it was God that trained him to be a warrior and that it was His help that made him great. And all these things happened to him because his heart was fully devoted to God.

In like manner, if we will totally set our hearts on God, so that we may learn to please Him every day, He will equally set us apart to be equipped for great things in this life, regardless of what low place we are or how handicapped we may be. But are we going to totally set our hearts and affection on Him and on pleasing Him? Am I going to totally set my heart and affection on Him and on pleasing Him? That, as I pointed out before, is what will determine what things He is able to use me for and what heights He is able to take me to.

My prayer, then, for you and me is that our hearts will be daily drawn by the Holy Spirit to love God and to seek to please Him all the time. Amen.

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Learn to draw from Him | By: J.O. Lawal | Date: July 10, 2024 | Series: Youth for Jesus | Number: Vol. 7, No. 9

“David was greatly distressed because the men were talking of stoning him; each one was bitter in spirit because of his sons and daughters. But David found strength in the LORD his God.” (1Sam 30:6NIV)

Why was David greatly distressed on the occasion mentioned in our opening text? It was because his men, his mighty men of valour, were talking about stoning him to death. But why would they want to do that? These were men of war. These were men that the bible says so much about their exploits and their devotion to David. Yet they wanted to stone him on this occasion. What sort of tragedy could have befallen them?

Well, as bible account shows us, the reason was that all these men had lost their wives and children to Amalekite raiders. And whose fault was that? It was largely David’s fault. David was their leader. And while they were moving around and fighting all kinds of battle from place to place, he should have thought about leaving some men behind to guard their families and possessions. So, the reason they lost their families and children to those raiders was that he was negligent to some extent about the welfare of his people. (Cf. 1Sam 27:1-12 & 30:1-2)

But then, David was not entirely to blame for what befell them. The men with him too should have thought about counselling him to leave some people behind for the protection of their family members. But it is not said in Scriptures that any of them counselled him about this at all. If he had been counselled by at least one of them and had refused to listen, it would have been a different thing entirely. But since none of them was open-minded enough at the time to think of the protection of their families while they would be away, they should not have put the whole blame on David.

Sadly, they put the whole blame on him, to the extent that they even talked about stoning him for their loss, as though that would solve the problem. And as I said before, we are talking about mighty warriors here. Yet their hearts failed them on this occasion. Their hearts so failed them that all they could think of doing was cry. And they cried until they had no more strength to cry. But did that change their situation? No!

Now David too cried and wept like them and with them. Also, he accepted his error of judgment as their leader and did not quarrel with them for talking about stoning him. But he did more than crying and accepting his failure. He also went on to strengthen himself in the Lord. In other words, he reminded himself of the presence of God with him and on his side. And he drew his strength from this to pray and to also pursue and destroy the raiders that had captured their families. So, he not only recovered all that they had taken away from him and his men; he also brought back great wealth. Hallelujah! (Cf. 1Sam 30:6-31)

What, then, do we learn from this? It is that each of us must learn to draw strength from the Lord ourselves. Yes, we may have great people of faith who love and care about us in our lives and around us. But there may be times when their faith may not be strong enough or strong at all to help us. In fact, there may be times when, instead of strengthening us with their faith, they may simply be pulling us down with their fear and unbelief.

David’s men, as we see in Scriptures, were all warriors. Not only that, all of them believed in him and in the anointing of God upon his life as their future king. Otherwise, they would not have left the comfort of their homes with their families to wander from place to place with him. Yet on the occasion mentioned in our opening text, these men’s faith failed them; their faith was of no use to David. And if he had not learnt before that time to draw strength from the Lord, he and his men may have lost their families and possessions forever. That, of course, may have ruined God’s plans for his life as the future king of Israel.

Remember Job too. Remember that even though all his three friends that came to comfort him during his trials were men of faith in God, none of them was able to help him. Their faith could not help him find healing or deliverance. In fact, they did not even exercise their faith for his healing at all. They did not come together to pray or intercede for him. Instead, they just abused and condemned him unjustly. So, in the long run, he had to tell them to shut up, for they were nothing but miserable comforters and worthless physicians to him. And if he had not learnt to trust God by himself to receive his restoration, the unkind words of those friends of his could have made him give up and die before his time. (Cf. Job 13:4-5 & 16:2)

So, don’t think the faith of your parents, friends, husband, wife, siblings or church leaders will always be strong enough to support you in moments of trials. Yes, it will be good for that to always be case. And it can always be the case with some of the people in your life. But what if it is not the case? What if the faith of this loving and loyal friend, partner or church leader happens not to be strong enough to help you in a situation, will you be able to trust God by yourself and still walk in victory?

That, of course, is not a question you can answer carelessly. But it will be good that you are able to say, “Yes, I will be able to trust God myself to walk in victory over any situation, even if I cannot find any faith person supporting me?” And you will be able to say so, if you will daily learn to take your walk with the Lord seriously and to draw from Him the strength, courage and any other thing you may need to stay victorious in life.

Cheers!

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Place the right value on it | By: J.O. Lawal | Date: July 03, 2024 | Series: Youth for Jesus | Number: Vol. 7, No. 8

“”I tell you the truth,” he continued, “no prophet is accepted in his hometown. I assure you that there were many widows in Israel in Elijah’s time, when the sky was shut for three and a half years and there was a severe famine throughout the land. Yet Elijah was not sent to any of them, but to a widow in Zarephath in the region of Sidon. And there were many in Israel with leprosy in the time of Elisha the prophet, yet not one of them was cleansed — only Naaman the Syrian.”” (Luke 4:24-27NIV)

Who said these words? It was our Lord Jesus Christ. To whom did He say them? It was to the people of His hometown. And why did He say such words to them? He said them because the people did not value Him and His ministry the way they should have.

Now why did the people of Jesus’ hometown not value Him the way people did in other places that He had been? It was because they thought that they knew Him well. And they did know Him well. They knew His earthly parents and His earthly brothers and sisters. They also knew His house. And they knew His trade. (Cf. Matt 13:54-58; Mark 6:1-5)

But that was all that they knew about Him, things that concerned His life in the natural realm. They did not know the spiritual man in Him. They did not know Him as the Son of God that was sent to save mankind. They did not know Him as their Messiah and King. And they did not know Him as a man of God.

Therefore, He could not do many mighty works among them, as He had done in all the other places He had gone. And this, as gospel writers note, shocked Him. Their unbelief surprised Him. You can see, then, that even God cannot operate well in an atmosphere of unbelief. He cannot operate well in an atmosphere of bitterness, jealousy, evil suspicions or resentment. So, if we permit any of these things in our lives, homes, workplaces or churches, even if Jesus were to physically come down from heaven and minister to us, He may not be able to help, save or lift us.

In any case, because of the attitude of the people of His hometown to Him, Jesus drew their attention to a very bitter truth, which is that servants of God don’t always get the kind of respect and honour they deserve among those closest to them in the flesh. Therefore, it is often outsiders that enjoy them and their grace of God upon their lives the more.

Now the Lord goes on to give us examples from the Scripture to back this reality up. First, He said even though there were many widows in Israel in Elijah’s time and when there was famine in the land, God did not send him to any of them. Instead, He sent him to a widow outside the land. And it was that widow that enjoyed the grace of his ministry during that period in order to survive the famine. (Cf. 1Kings 17)

Second, the Lord said even though there were many with leprosy in the land of Israel in Elisha’s time (a mention is even made of four of them in connection to the famine in Samaria), not one of them received their healing and cleansing through the ministry of Elisha. But when Naaman, a foreigner, travelled all the way down from his country to meet this man of God, he received his healing and cleansing, having humbled himself. (Cf. 2Kings 5&7)

What point, then, is the Lord making by saying these things? It is that the fact that we possess something or that something is readily available to us does not mean that we will enjoy its full benefits. If we do not place the right value on it, its benefits and blessings may just elude us. But if others, who do not have the kind of right or access that we have to that thing, will place the right value on it, they may just be the ones enjoying the benefits and blessings that should have been ours as well or ours in the first place.

So, don’t ever mistake possession for enjoyment. No, don’t misrepresent association for satisfaction. If you do not place the right value on the people and things God has placed in your life, you will not be able to enjoy well the blessings and benefits on your relationship with them. Yet, right before your eyes, others who value these people and things well may begin to draw all kinds of enjoyment from them in ways beyond your expectation. So, get rid of whatever is preventing you from placing the right value on the gifts of God in your life. Doing so will serve you well.

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How serious am I? | By: J.O. Lawal | Date: June 26, 2024 | Series: Youth for Jesus | Number: Vol. 7, No. 7

“Jesus entered Jericho and was passing through. A man was there by the name of Zacchaeus; he was a chief tax collector and was wealthy. He wanted to see who Jesus was, but being a short man he could not, because of the crowd. So he ran ahead and climbed a sycamore-fig tree to see him, since Jesus was coming that way.” (Luke 19:1-4NIV)

Who was passing through Jericho? Jesus! Who wanted to see who He was? Zacchaeus! And why did he want to see what Jesus looked like? It must have been because he had heard a lot about him and his ministry and had somehow come to believe that He was truly in a position to help him find salvation and be accepted into God’s eternal kingdom.

But then, remember that Zacchaeus was not an acquaintance of Jesus. Remember also that Jesus had not come to Jericho to visit anyone. He was simply going through the place to Jerusalem. So, if Zacchaeus would succeed in seeing Him or interacting with Him, he would have to be really serious about it; he would have to overcome whatever hurdles that may be on his way.

Did this man, then, demonstrate seriousness or not in seeing Jesus? He did. How? Well, we are told in our opening text that this man, even though he was a very wealthy and influential man, ran ahead and climbed a tree in order to get a good look at Jesus. So, the first thing that showed that Zacchaeus was serious about seeing Jesus was that he laid aside his ego as a wealthy man in order to pursue the salvation of his soul.

The second thing that showed Zacchaeus’ seriousness in seeing Jesus was his willingness to act like a child in order to see Him. How did he act like a child? Well, he acted like a child by running ahead of the crowd following Jesus and climbing a tree. He knew that he was a short man. And though his being short may not have been a disadvantage to him in financial matters, it was going to be a disadvantage to him in dealing with the crowd that was with Jesus on that day that He was passing through Jericho. So, in order to overcome that disadvantage, he did what any child would not think twice to do – he ran ahead and climbed a tree in order to see Jesus. That was utter seriousness.

Now did this man’s seriousness pay off or not? It did, for the bible says a miracle of recognition actually happened that day for Zacchaeus. Jesus stopped right under the tree the man was and asked him to come down and take Him to his house. How did Jesus know that he was there on that tree? Then how did He know his name? Evidently, He knew all these things by divine revelations. (Cf. Luke 19:5-6)

In any case, all that was important to Zacchaeus was that his seriousness in seeking out Jesus for his salvation that day paid off. The Lord delayed His trip to Jerusalem for a while in order to come into his house and fellowship with him and his family. And even though all the religious people of the place were not happy about this, the Lord could care less. He was not going to deny a man that was serious about his salvation what he wanted. (Cf. Luke 19:7-10)

What, then, do we learn from this? Well, it is the same lessons that we have in Hebrews, chapter 11, verse 6, which reads, “And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him.” (Heb 11:6NIV) Who are the people that God rewards? It those who believe in Him and who demonstrate seriousness in seeking Him for whatever they need or want.

Observe that Jesus did not stop that day to go into the house of any of the people running after Him just for the sake of gazing at Him or touching Him as a celebrity. Rather, He stopped to go into the house of a man whose heart was so hungry and serious about seeing Him and receiving his salvation through Him that He climbed a tree. So, regardless of the number of the people living in this world, God can identify and tell those whose hearts are truly hungry and serious about knowing Him and having their needs met by Him. In fact, the bible says that His eyes are scanning all the heart for such people, so that He can show Himself strong on their behalf. (Cf. 2Chro 16:9)

The question, then, is, “Am I among those serious and diligent seekers of God?” How serious am I really about knowing God? How serious am I really about receiving whatever I need from Him? Well, the degree of our seriousness in relating to God has a lot to say about how He will relate to us and what degree of His glory we will witness. So, let us work on our seriousness in all our dealings with Him, and it will surely pay off.

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Determination is a force | By: J.O. LAWAL | Date: June 19, 2024 | Series: Youth for JESUS | Number: Vol. 7, No. 6

“But Manasseh did not drive out the people of Beth Shan or Taanach or Dor or Ibleam or Megiddo and their surrounding settlements, for the Canaanites were determined to live in that land.” (Judg 1:27NIV)

Why did the tribe of Manasseh not drive out the Canaanites in the land God had given to them? It was because those Canaanites were determined not to give up their land.

But God had already given that land to the Israelites? Not only that, God had given them the ability to take the land for themselves. Why, then, did they not proceed to drive out all the Canaanites there? At least, we are not told that they could not drive them out. If that were the case, then, it would mean that they attempted to drive them out but failed to do so.

What we are told, however, implies that they did not show much serious commitment in driving out those people. Why? Evidently, it was not because those people had enough power to resist them. Rather, it was because they found some ways to make them allow them to continue to live in the land.

What exactly did they do, then, to make the Israelites disobey God’s command to drive them out? What did they do to appease them and make them continue to live in the land? We would not know everything they did to make that happen, for we are not told in plain terms. But we do know from bible accounts that they somehow succeeded in making the Israelites fall in love with their girls and marry them. They also succeeded in making their men capture the hearts of Israelites girls and marry them. And they did that to save themselves; they did that because they were determined to stay in the land. (Cf. Judges 3:5-6)

So, determination is a force. It is a force that is powerful enough to prevent people from giving up. It is a force that drives people to think outside the box to find ways for themselves where there seems to be none. And where people are determined to do something, it will be hard, if not impossible, for you to stop them, if you are not more determined than they are, even if you have all the armies of God with you.. That, then, means that determination is a virtue we all must possess, if we are going to get anything meaningful done in life and if we will not allow ourselves to be enslaved by anyone or anything.

However, it is not enough for us to be determined to do something or not to do something; it is also important that we trust God to make our determination count. Otherwise, we may end up being destroyed through our determination. For instance, we are told in the book of Daniel that he was determined not to be defiled through the eating of the king’s food and wine. And because he was determined in this way, he found a way to talk to the chief official that was handling them about giving him and his friends permission not to eat what others were eating. (Cf. Dan 1:8)

Now did the man give him audience at all? He did! And did he grant his request? He did! Why? As we see in the account, it was because God granted him favour in the sight of the man and also brought about circumstances that encouraged the man to continue to favour him. If God had not granted him favour before the man, then, his determination could only have earned him trouble. (Cf. Dan 1:8-16)

So, while it is important that you are determined to do the will of God in your life, to be prosperous and to not be a slave of anyone or anything, don’t ever count on your determination. Instead, count on God. Determination is a powerful force indeed. But it cannot take the place of God in our lives, for it is actually a gift of God to us. Therefore, if we want it to work in our favour, our trust should not be in it but in the one who has given it to us. That way, He will be glad to make it count in our lives.

Finally, I must warn you not to employ determination in doing evil or anything contrary to the will of God. That is stubbornness. And it can only earn you sudden destruction, if you are not shown mercy. Then don’t misrepresent determination for desperation or recklessness. Otherwise, you will not only fail at whatever you are up to, you may also end up killing yourself before your time. Therefore, mind yourself.

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Every time is not a time to collect | By: J.O. Lawal | Date: June 12, 2024 | Series: Youth for Jesus | Number: Vol. 7, No. 5

“But Elisha said to him, “Was not my spirit with you when the man got down from his chariot to meet you? Is this the time to take money, or to accept clothes, olive groves, vineyards, flocks, herds, or menservants and maidservants? Naaman’s leprosy will cling to you and to your descendants forever.” Then Gehazi went from Elisha’s presence and he was leprous, as white as snow.” (2Kings 5:26-27NIV)

Why did Gehazi end up becoming leprous for life? It was because he took some gifts from Naaman the Aramean. As the story goes, Naaman, the commander of the army of the king of Aram had come to Prophet Elisha for the healing of his leprosy. Now though, because of pride, he did not initially want to do what the prophet had told him to do, his wise servants succeeded in encouraging him to do it. And when he did what he was told to do, his leprosy vanished from him and his skin became as clean and smooth as that of a little boy. (Cf. 2Kings 5:1-14)

What happened to this man, of course, dazed him. So, he came back to Elisha, stood before him and said, “Now I know that there is no God in all the world except in Israel. Please accept now a gift from your servant.” (2Kings 5:15NIV) Did you see that? Naaman, a man of might and influence and one who had spent all his life worshiping all kinds of dumb gods, acknowledged right before all his servants that Yahweh is the only God in all the world. What a testimony!

But then, as a man of understanding, Naaman also knew that the right thing for him to do was to appreciate the man God had used for him, namely, Elisha. So, he offered him gifts, and he had actually brought along with him a lot of money and some very expensive sets of clothing (2Kings 5:5). But Elisha would have none of his gifts. And even though he persuaded him to take something from him, he would not accept any gift from him.

Why would Elisha not accept any gift from this man? Is it wrong for men of God to accept gifts of appreciation from those God has used them to bless? No, it is not wrong! As we see in the bible, it is God Himself that has commanded us to support those who share His word with us with our material things (1Cor 9:14; Gal 6:6). And as we also see in bible accounts of Elisha’s life and ministry, he used to allow people to entertain him and to give him gifts (2Kings 4).

So, it was not because it was wrong for men of God to accepts gifts of appreciation from those God has used them to bless that Elisha refused to collect anything from Naaman. Rather, it was because he wanted the man to go home with the testimony that God heals people free of charge. He wanted the man to go back home as a true worshipper of God. And that was exactly what happened. Naaman left Elisha, with faith in God in his heart. In fact, he even carried some soil from the land Israel with him to prepare for himself a place where he would be worshipping God in his house. (Cf. 2Kings 5:15-18)

Now supposing Naaman was to visit Elisha months or years after that incident and to bring him gifts, the situation might be different and the man of God may have received his gifts. But on that day, at that very hour, any gift received by Elisha from him would not truly be a gift of appreciation but a payment for his healing. And he did not want him to go home and back to his country with that impression. So, he would not take anything from him.

However, Gehazi, Elisha’s servant, who had been watching what was happening all along was not happy at all that his master did not collect anything from Naaman. Maybe they were really low on money, food and clothing at the time and could really use Naaman’s gifts to make things easier for themselves. We would not know. But we do know from the account that instead for Gehazi to approach his master and ask him why he did not collect any gift from Naaman, he went behind him to meet Naaman and to receive some gifts for himself. And to make matters worse, he did that in the name of his master. So, because of greed and ignorance, Gehazi ruined the testimony God had given to Naaman. Not only that, he made his master, Elisha, look like an unstable man that really did not know what he wanted. (Cf. 2Kings 5:19-24)

Unfortunately for him, what he thought he did in secret was not hidden at all from his master. His master saw everything by revelation. So, he called him in and told him what he would have learnt, if he had asked him questions about how he related to Naaman instead of going to take gifts from him behind his back. He told him that that was a wrong time and situation to receive gifts from people, regardless of how great or expensive the gifts many be; rather, it was a time to freely give what God had freely given to them.

But the harm had already been done. Gehazi had already missed it and exposed himself and all his descendants after him to God’s judgment. They would be the bearers of the leprosy of Naaman to warn and remind men of the danger of greed and of not understanding the ways of God. What a shame!

Is there, then, any lesson for us in all this? Yes! First, it is that every time is not a time to collect things or receive things from people. And if we collect things from people at the wrong time, we may just be collecting some problems along with whatever we have collected from them, problems that what we have collected may not be able to solve. So, don’t let your circumstances, however bad they may be, be your motivation in collecting things from people. Instead, let the word of God be your guide. Then you will be able to save yourself from problems that are never meant to be yours in life.

Also, the account teaches us the importance of asking relevant questions, instead of acting on assumptions where we cannot understand why the people in our lives take decisions that are contrary to our expectations in handling certain matters. They may just have more light or revelations than us in such matters. And by asking them relevant questions, we will be able to understand them, accept their decisions and save ourselves from unseen dangers.

Elisha, evidently, had more light on spiritual matters than Gehazi. And if Gehazi, as I said before, had expressed his disappointment to him on that occasion instead of taking matters into his hand, he would have been told why it was wrong for them to take gifts from Naaman at the time. But because he did not do that, he had to learn the truth the hard way. May you never have to learn any lesson of life the hard way again, in Jesus’ name. But learn to never assume that you know better than your superiors or elders in spiritual or natural matters. It may be a costly assumption.

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Save on the basis of divine revelations | By: J.O. Lawal | Date: June 05, 2024 | Series: Youth for Jesus | Number: Vol. 7, No. 4

“Then Moses said to them, “No one is to keep any of it until morning.” However, some of them paid no attention to Moses; they kept part of it until morning, but it was full of maggots and began to smell. So Moses was angry with them.” (Ex 16:19-20NIV)

What do we learn from our opening bible text? It is that corruption awaits anything that we are not meant to save here on earth that we save. As the account goes, God, through Moses, had instructed the Israelites on how to handle Manna, the food He was sending to them from heaven. And how were they to handle it? Each of them was to take only the exact measure of Manna that he could consume in one day and nothing more. Why? The reason was that God, who was supplying them this food, would always make sure they had enough of it for each day.

Unfortunately, there were some of these Israelites that would not pay any attention to what Moses had told them. So, they took more Manna than they needed in one day and kept the remaining part for the following day or days. But to their surprise, corruption had entered it before they woke up to see the light of the day after. So, they had to learn by experience that no one could preserve what God had not preserved.

In like manner, we too cannot preserve what God does not preserve. So, before we begin to save for the future or for the raining day, we need to be sure that what we are saving is what God wants us to save. Otherwise, like those Israelites, we also may just have to learn through some bitter experience that only what God preserves for us gets preserved.

Does this, then, mean we are not to save anything for the future at all but to consume everything that comes our way? No! Yes, it is true that our Lord Jesus teaches us that we should be content with asking God for today’s bread today (Matt 6:11&34). But that does not mean that God cannot give us more than today’s bread. He can. And He often gives us more than today’s bread, for He is always able to do immeasurably more than we can ever ask for or imagine (Eph 3:20).

Therefore, when He gives us more than today’s bread, He does not expect us to consume everything. Rather, He expects us to invest or save what is left. How, then, do we know what we are to invest and what we are to save from what God is giving to us? It takes divine revelations from Him to know these things. And where these are not given to people, they are bound to invest or save wrongly.

For instance, in the case of the Israelites above, when God wanted the people to save the Manna He was giving them for another day, He spoke to Moses about it. Look at how this is presented to us in the account:

“On the sixth day, they gathered twice as much — two omers for each person — and the leaders of the community came and reported this to Moses. He said to them, “This is what the LORD commanded: ‘Tomorrow is to be a day of rest, a holy Sabbath to the LORD. So bake what you want to bake and boil what you want to boil. Save whatever is left and keep it until morning.'” So they saved it until morning, as Moses commanded, and it did not stink or get maggots in it.” (Ex 16:22-23NIV)

Did you see that? It was God that told Moses when the people should gather more than they would need for a day and to save part of it for the following day. And when they did, whatever was saved did not go bad at all. Rather, it was well preserved for their enjoyment. And who preserved it? It was God, the same God that had told them to save it.

So, when we invest or save on the basis of divine revelations, what we save will not be lost to corruption or devourers. Instead, it will be preserved for our enjoyment and for His glory. And this, of course, is also the explanation for what Jesus tells us about not storing up treasures for ourselves here on earth but storing up treasures for ourselves in heaven (Matt 6:19-21). Some have taken this to mean that God does not want us to save up anything in this world at all; rather, He wants us to give everything for His kingdom.

But that is far from the truth. Even our Lord Jesus Christ Himself who taught us these things had savings. And Judas Iscariot was His treasurer. Why, then, was He saving up money here on earth, if it is wrong for us to do so? He saved up money here on earth because it is not wrong to do so. He saved up money here on earth because doing so has its own advantages. For instance, it enables one to take advantage of unexpected opportunities. Also, it provides one some measure of security in times of famine or unexpected hardship. (Cf. Gen 41; John 12:4-6)

However, as our Lord Jesus also shows us, whatever we save here on earth can become corrupt, lost or stolen, unless God preserves it for us. Also, we will someday have to leave whatever we save up here on earth, for we brought nothing into the world and can take nothing out of it. What, then, will become of whatever we have saved up here on earth, when we eventually leave this place?

What became of the money Jesus was saving with Judas Iscariot? First, His money was not entirely safe with the man – he was stealing from it for his own personal enjoyment. Also, when the man died, nobody could tell what became of whatever was left of Jesus’ money with him. Everything simply disappeared with his death.

So, when Jesus tells us that money or treasures kept here on earth are in danger of being stolen or lost or of experiencing corruption, He is not saying so to totally discourage from saving here on earth. Rather, He is saying these things so that we will learn to reach out for divine revelations from God about the matter. That way, we won’t end up saving up here on earth what we should be saving up in heaven and lose our savings to corruption.

Cheers!

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Pay attention | By: J.O. Lawal | Date: May 29, 2024 | Series: Youth for Jesus | Number: Vol. 7, No. 3

“In an attempt to escape from the ship, the sailors let the lifeboat down into the sea, pretending they were going to lower some anchors from the bow. Then Paul said to the centurion and the soldiers, “Unless these men stay with the ship, you cannot be saved.” So the soldiers cut the ropes that held the lifeboat and let it fall away.” (Acts 27:30-32NIV)

Why did the sailors mentioned in our open bible text want to abandon the people with them and run away? It was because they were selfish. Yes, as the account goes, their lives and the lives of all the people on board with them had been in danger for days. And that was because their ship had been caught by a terrible storm that was bent on destroying all of them. But the reason they found themselves in that mess in the first place was that they would not listen to Paul before they started the journey. (Cf. Acts 27:9-20)

As the account also shows us, Paul had warned these sailors not to embark on that journey at the time they did because he perceived that it was going to be dangerous for all of them. But they did not listen to him. Not only that, they assured others that they knew what they were doing. So, majority of the people travelling with them agreed that they should proceed. And that was what exposed the lives of all of them to danger.

Nevertheless, because they had Paul on board, a man of God who was praying for everyone’s safety, God showed them mercy, sent an angel to him to assure them that none of them would lose their life. And he did assure them that they would not lose their lives, for God was going to save them. Not only that, he comforted them and encouraged every one of them to eat. (Cf. Acts 27:21-23)

But then, instead for the sailors, who put them in trouble in the first place, to remain steadfast and focus on bringing everyone to a shore of safety, all they could think of was using trick to abandon the people out there in the open sea and escape. Wasn’t that wicked and irresponsible of them? It was! But that is something that is often seen among leaders, even in the home. They will be the ones that will cause trouble for everyone. Yet they will be the first to be looking for a way to run away and leave their people to sort themselves out.

See, any leader can make mistakes. Yes, the best of leaders can make mistakes. And that is because no human being is perfect in knowledge – only God is. But if you make a mistake that has exposed others to trouble, admit it, seek God’s face for help and also do whatever is in your power to do to save those that you have compromised their safety or progress. That way, you will always have their respect and appreciation.

But if, as a leader, you abandon your people to destruction, you may never again have their blessings or approval, even if you are not the one directly responsible for their ordeals. So, if you are not ready to stay with people from start to finish, regardless of what they may possibly face on the way to their destination, don’t offer to lead them or push yourself forward as their leader. You are not fit to lead. Just admit it and take your low position.

In any case, there is a very important lesson from our opening text that we must not miss. And it is that we must always pay attention to what those with us or around us doing. That way, we can tell if it is something that will compromise our safety or progress or not. If Paul had not been paying attention to what the sailors were whispering among themselves and to their body language, he would not have been able to tell that they were planning to abandon all of them out in the open sea. But because he was paying attention, he was able to expose them and foil their wicked plot.

Now why was Paul able to pay attention in that manner and save everybody on board? Even the soldiers on board were not paying attention the way he was. He was able to do so because he did not allow himself to be consumed by their current challenges. Yes, it was a dark time for all of them. But he did not allow the darkness of the moment to consume him. That was why he was able to pray. It was also why he was able to pay attention to what everyone was doing and expose the plot of the wicked.

In like manner, we too must learn to pay attention to what is happening around us, regardless of how dark or chaotic the moment may be. Yes, we must be praying for God’s protection all the time. But we must also be watchful. Paul did not just save everyone on that ship through his prayers but also through his attentiveness, his watchfulness. And we too may not be able to save ourselves and others in some situations through prayers alone, if we are not watchful or attentive.

So, regardless of what we are confronted with, we must never allow ourselves to be so consumed by what is happening that we won’t be able to think clearly and pray to God and also pay attention to what those with us or around us are doing. Otherwise, we may just end up needlessly becoming victims of people’s selfishness, jealousy, wickedness or foolishness.

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