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Title: God wants us to bear fruit

Date: June 29, 2025

Series: Fruit bearing

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Last week, we began to look at ‘Fruit bearing in Christianity’. And I began to show us from scriptures that God wants those of us who are his children to bear fruit. We have reasons, of course, that He wants us to bear fruit, which are:

1. He chose and appointed us to bear fruit. We were recreated, chosen and recreated by Him to bear fruit.

2. We have a relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ that puts us in a position where we can bear fruit.

3. It brings God’s glory when we bear fruit.I want you to take those three things and put them in your heart. I don’t want you to forget them.

Maybe you should say these things after me: God wants us to bear fruit because He has chosen us and appointed us to bear fruit. That’s one. Two, He wants us to bear fruit because we have a relationship with Him that puts us in that position where we can bear fruit. Three, it brings Him glory when we bear fruit. Put those three things in mind.Now we rounded off by speaking about the nature of fruit that we are meant to bear. God indeed wants us to bear fruit. But what sort of fruit does He want us to bear?

Jesus, speaking to us in St. John’s Gospel Chapter 15, tells us that God wants us to bear fruit. But we need to know what sort of fruit He wants us to bear.I gave us a suggestion. I said there are preachers who believe that when Jesus says that He has chosen and appointed us to bring forth fruit, it means that we should go out and begin to preach the good news. For them, it is as we bring souls into the kingdom of God that we are bearing fruit.

While that sounds good, it is not an explanation for what Jesus says. It is not even consistent with the body of truth that we are given in Scriptures about bearing fruit.See, it is not only in St. John’s Gospel Chapter 15 that we are told something about bringing forth fruit. There are other passages of Scriptures in which we are shown that God is expecting us to bear fruit. And we are also given instructions on the nature of fruit He wants us to bear. So, before we proceed on how to bear fruit, we need to know the nature of fruit God expects us to bear. We need to know God’s expectations.

What is God expecting of us? We need to know what sort of demands God is placing on us. Yes, we have come into a relationship with Him. But we do need to know what He expects of us.Because this is often the problem with those of us who are Christians. We are, for the most part ignorant, of what God expects of us. How does God expect us to behave? How does He expect us to function? What are the things He wants us to be doing? It’s not just about talking about living to please God. It’s so easy to talk about living to please God. It’s so easy to tell somebody, “Don’t you know you ought to be living to please God?”

But how do I live to please God? What will I be doing that will make him able to say that I am pleasing God? Jesus says, “The one who sent me is with me; he has not left me alone, for I always do what pleases him.” (John 8:29NIV)

This is coming from Jesus: The one who sent me is with me. He has not left me alone, for I always do what pleases him. My emphasis is on ‘always’. He’s not just telling us that He does what pleases God. He also tells us the frequency. He says, “I always do what pleases Him.”Now I’ve asked myself if I too can say that. I love to say that. I want to say that.

I’m not sure I can say that at the moment, but I’m aiming for it. I want to get to a point in my walk with God that I will be able to say, “I always do what pleases you.” I want to be able to tell Him that you know that I always do what pleases you. He [Jesus} wasn’t guessing. There was no doubt about it. He knew that He always pleased God. Interestingly, God said the same thing about Him. God said, “This is my beloved Son, with whom I am well pleased.” That means God agreed with him that He always did what pleased him.

Now how many Christians know whether they are pleasing God or not? Can you tell if the life you are living now is pleasing God? Can you tell if the things you are doing right now are pleasing God? Is it even on your heart to please Him? It is said in Scriptures about Enoch that he had this testimony that he pleased God. Enoch had this testimony that he pleased God. The man knew that he pleased God. That must have been because he knew God’s demands. He knew what God expected of him. And we too, as believers, need to know what God expects of us. We need to know how He expects us to live. We need to know how he expects us to function. So, (Cf. Hebrews 11:5)

Well, we are talking about fruit bearing and are saying that we need to know what sort of fruit God expects us to bear. And I’m saying that it has nothing to do with soul-winning or evangelizing our world. Nothing is wrong with soul-winning. Nothing is wrong with evangelizing our world. There are scriptures that point to the fact that God wants us to be reaching out with His word to those in our world. But ultimately, the results are determined by Him.

We do our bit in preaching the word of God, day after day, week after week, month after month, year after year. But the one who determines the results is God, not human beings. And so, when Jesus is talking about fruit bearing, He’s not dealing with preaching the good news. It’s possible for you to be preaching the good news and not be bearing the kind of fruit God wants to be here. It is possible.

Yes, as I pointed out already, since we have a relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ, we are put in that position where we can bear fruit. He describes that relationship as that between a vine and its branches. It follows, then, that the sort of fruit He wants us to bear is that which is consistent with His own character.

He is the vine. We are the branches, as He puts it in St. John’s Gospel chapter 15. That being the case, the kind of fruit He expects us to bear is that which is associated with who He is, that which is associated with His character. I need to give us some scriptures. Let me start with Isaiah chapter 5. From verse 1, it says:“I will sing. I will sing for the one I love a song about his vineyard. My loved one had a vineyard on a fertile east side. He dug it up and cleared it of stones and planted it with the choicest vines. He built a watchtower in it and cut out a winepress as well.

Then he looked for a crop of good grapes, but it yielded only bad fruit. Now you dwellers in Jerusalem and people of Judah, judge between me and my vineyard. What more could have been done for my vineyard than I have done for it? When I looked for good grapes, why did it yield only bad? Now I will tell you what I’m going to do to my vineyard: I will take away its edge, and it will be destroyed. I will break down its wall, and it will be trampled. I will make it a wasteland, neither pruned nor cultivated. And briers and thorns will grow there. I will command the clouds not to rain on it.

The vineyard of the Lord Almighty is the nation of Israel, and the people of Judah are the vines he delighted in. And he looked for justice, but saw bloodshed, for righteousness, but heard cries of distress.” (Isaiah 5:1-7NIV)

Now this is a passage talking about fruit bearing. It speaks of the vineyard of Isaiah’s beloved and all the things that his beloved did to take care of the vineyard.

Unfortunately, though he was looking for good fruits from the trees there, what was he getting? Bad fruits!Now, in explaining or in talking about what the vineyard and the fruits that it was bearing mean, what does he say? He refers to the vineyard as people, right? Then, in talking about the fruit, he refers to the fruit as character. He says, “I am looking for justice. But what do I see? Bloodshed! I am looking for righteousness. But what do I see? Cries of distress””So, here, when the Lord is talking about fruit bearing, it has to do with people’s conduct; it has to do with people’s character.

And as I give us some other passages of scriptures where fruit bearing is mentioned, you will see that they are consistent. Or let me say that Scriptures consistently point out that when God is speaking about fruit bearing, He’s talking about godly character; He’s talking about people’s character.

Let’s also look at St. Luke’s Gospel, Chapter 3. As a background, John the Baptist, the forerunner of our Lord Jesus Christ, came and began to preach, calling people back to God. Here are some of the things said by Luke about his ministry: “John said to the crowds coming out to be baptized by him, “You brood of vipers! Who warned you to flee from the coming wrath? Produce fruit in keeping with repentance. And do not begin to say to yourselves, ‘We have Abraham as our father.’ For I tell you that out of these stones God can raise up children for Abraham. The ax is already at the root of the trees, and every tree that does not produce good fruit will be cut down and thrown into the fire.” (Luke 3:7-9NIV)

Now, in preaching to the people, what did John the Baptist say? He said produce fruit in keeping with repentance. In other words, if you are coming to God, you must bring up fruit that shows that you have actually turned to God. If you call yourself a child of God, you must bring forth fruit that will show those of the world that you are indeed a child of God.If you stand before an orange tree, you don’t need to ask that tree, “Are you an orange tree or something else?” What do you need to look out for? The fruit! Jesus says a tree is recognized by its fruit.

So, if I am a child of God, I will be recognized by my fruit.And remember, in St. Matthew’s Gospel, chapter 7, speaking about false prophets, Jesus says, “By their fruit, you will recognize them.” He does not say by their preaching. He does not say by their sermons. Now we don’t recognize people as children of God through their sermons.

Yes, their sermons may give us the impression that they are children of God. But that’s not the true test. If you want to know whether someone is of God or not, you are not going to be looking at the person’s sermons.

Also, you are not going to be looking at the person’s gifts. Someone may prophesy, and the prophecy will come to pass. Now you may, on account of that, mistake that person for a child of God. But the person may not be a child of God. Someone may be working miracles. And you may mistake that person for a child of God. But the person may not be a child of God. That is because even Satan can work miracles. Satan can prophesy. (Cf. 2Thessalonians 2:9)

By the way, sometimes God can borrow people to prophesy. God can use a non-believer to prophesy to you. And the unbeliever may not even know that he is prophesying. John, speaking about one of the high priests of the time of our Lord Jesus Christ, said the man prophesied. The man said, “Is it not better for one person to die for the entire country than for the whole country to perish?” And John said that he was unconsciously prophesying when he said that.

And those listening did not even know he was prophesying. But he was prophesying about the death of Jesus Christ, how He would die to save the Jews and all mankind. Interestingly, the man himself did not even know they were prophesying. So, what happened was that God borrowed his mouth for a while and used it to prophesy. (Cf. John 11:49-52)

The point is that God can borrow people and use them to do something spiritual for a while. It does not mean that they belong to him. At least Jesus speaks about those who will come to Him on the day of judgment and say, “Did we not prophesy in your name? Did we not heal the sick in your name?” Yet He will say to them, “I do not know you.” (Cf. Matthew 7:21-23)

But how can somebody prophesy in the name of Jesus and He will still tell them, “I do not know you?” And how will someone heal the sick in the name of Jesus and yet Jesus will tell the person, “I do not know you?” Do you think Jesus will not say to Judas Iscariot, “I do not know you?” Hello? Hello? Is somebody with me?Judas Iscariot lived with Jesus. He traveled with Jesus. He slept with Jesus. He ate with Jesus. He managed Jesus’ money.

Not only that, Jesus entrusted Judas with authority to preach the good news, to heal the sick, to drive out demons. And Judas wasn’t just entrusted with that authority, he used it. He went out with others and preached the good news. He went out with others and healed the sick. He went out with others and drove out demons.

Yet the Lord referred to him as the son of perdition, right?So, guess what? With my own sanctified imagination, I am considering the fact that on the day of judgment Judas will face Jesus and say, “Lord, we did all these things together.

Do you really mean that you’re sending me to hell?” Have you ever thought about that? Do you think Judas will not try to appeal to Jesus on the basis of their relationship? Would he not say, “You called me. You chose me. Remember, I managed your money. Yes, I messed up, but are you saying that all those things that we did together did not mean anything to you?”

So, bearing fruit is not about being a good preacher. It’s not about having certain spiritual gifts or healing gifts or gifts of prophecy or gifts of speaking in diverse tongues and all of that. No. It has to do with bringing forth godly character. Now what we are dealing with is a relationship. If indeed He is the vine and we are His branches, and indeed He is the vine and we are His branches, then if we are going to bring forth fruit, the fruit we will bring forth should reflect His character, not something else.

And so, here in Luke 3, John the Baptist is saying, “Don’t just say that you are turning to God. You also need to bring forth fruit that is in keeping with repentance.” Why? As he points out, the axe is already at the root of the trees. And every tree that does not produce good fruit will be cut down and thrown into the fire.

Personally, I love the way the people responded to John the Baptist. They did not assume that they understood what he was saying. Yes, he was speaking to them about bringing forth fruit. He said, “You need to bring forth fruit in keeping with repentance.” But they would not assume that they understood what he was talking about. So, they asked him, “What should we do then?” (Cf. Luke 3:10)

Now look at his response. He did not tell them to go and start preaching the good news. He did not tell them to go out and start winning the unbelievers and the pagans around them. What did he tell them? Look at it: “John answered, “Anyone who has two shirts should share with the one who has none, and anyone who has food should do the same.” (Luke 3:11NIV)

What is that? Goodness! If you belong to God, you bring forth the fruit of goodness; you bring forth the fruit of love. The one who has two shirts should give one to the one who does not have any, that is, if you have two. You can’t give what you don’t have. Since you have two, you can give one. John doesn’t say the one who has one should give to the one who doesn’t have any.

Instead, he says the one who has two should give one to the one who has none. That is goodness. That is a manifestation of love.Luke goes on in the next verse, saying, “Even tax collectors came to be baptized. “Teacher,” they asked, “what should we do?” “Don’t collect any more than you are required to,” he told them.” (Luke 3:12NIV)

What is he talking about? Character! Don’t extort the people. That’s what he’s saying.So, you know, when we’re talking about fruit bearing, it has to do with character, godly character. It’s not about speaking in tongues, for instance. People would not know you as belonging to God just because you speak in tongues or just because you prophesy or because you know how to pray heavens down or because you keep your bible on your desk in your office.

If you walk to any office today and see somebody with a bible on his desk, how would you feel? I mean, naturally you should feel comfortable that I’m dealing with a Christian here. So, things should be easy. But from experience, some of us have not made things easy for those who come to us for help.

To say the fact, sometimes, when you meet those who appear to be Christians, you probably will just begin to think that you’re in for trouble. But should it be like that? No! John says, “Don’t take any more than you are required to.” This has to do with character. Don’t cheat people. Don’t oppress people. That is what he is saying.

Luke goes on in verse 14, saying, “Then some soldiers asked him, “And what should we do?”” Look at the classes of people coming to him. None of them assumed that they knew what he was talking about. Each one of them wanted to know God’s demands on their lives. You understand? What should we do? What was his answer? Look at it: “He replied, “Don’t extort money and don’t accuse people falsely – be content with your pay.”” (Luke 3:14NIV)

Did you see that? Be content with your pay. What does this have to do with? It has to do with character. So, when we’re talking about bringing forth fruit, we’re talking about exhibiting godly character where we live, where we work. It’s not about talking. Yes, there’s a place of talking about Jesus. But before we’re going to be getting opportunities to talk about Jesus, there must be something that will invite people to want to know about Him, something that will want people to want to know about him.

Writing to Titus, Paul says we can make Christianity attractive. And just as we can make Christianity attractive, we can also make Christianity unappealing. Then nobody wants to hear our sermons. Whether they are going to make sense or not, they don’t even want to hear them. Because the life we are living is not appealing. What will make the life we are living appealing is our exhibition of the character of God. (Cf. Titus 2:9-10)

So, for us as believers, we must always place great emphasis on an exhibition of godly character. It’s not enough to be born again. Being born again is just, how would I put it, a means to an end. That’s the starting point. Now the idea of saying, “Oh, I’m a Christian in the heart. God sees my heart,” doesn’t work with Christianity. If what is in your heart is good, then, it will reflect in your character. If you indeed have a relationship with the Lord, then, it will reflect in the fruit that you bear.

I ask myself, “If I have a relationship with Him indeed, it should show in the fruit that I bear. It should show in the quality of life that I live. It should show in the way I talk, in the way I behave, in the way I act. It should show.” People didn’t come to Jesus just because His sermons were great. People came to Him because His character was good too. People were glad to be around Him. Look at those people that followed Him up and down, those old men and women – they were not young like that.

Why did they follow Him like that? There’s something about His character.What is it about your character? Is it appealing? Is your character appealing? Is your way of life appealing? Is your way of life attractive to those that are around you? The way you talk, is there anybody that would like to talk the way you talk? The way you react to things, is there anybody around you that would like to react to things the way you react to things? The way you conduct yourself among people, is there anybody around you that would love to do the same? Is there anybody admiring your life? That’s the point.

If no one is admiring your life, then something is wrong. What are we dealing with? We are dealing with fruit bearing. And we are talking about the nature of fruit that God wants us to bear.

Why? We have that relationship with Him. And if indeed we have that relationship with Him, then, it should show in the quality of fruit, the nature of fruits that we bear.It’s another week. What sort of fruit are you going to bear this week where you live, where you work, where you do business, where you..

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Fire in my Bones General Post

Title: Don’t be wicked

Series: Youth for Jesus

Number: Vol. 8, No. 8

“But Er, Judah’s firstborn, was wicked in the LORD’s sight; so the LORD put him to death.” (Gen 38:7NIV)

Who was wicked in the Lord’s sight? It was Er. And who was Er? He was Judah’s firstborn son. Now Judah was one of the sons of Jacob. And though he could not be referred to as a very good man himself, he was the one that the blessing of the coming Messiah was given to by God through his father (Gen 49:8-12).

In any case, because Er was Judah’s son, he was someone that was supposed to know God and live in His fear. But evidently, he did not live in the fear of God at all. Instead, he was referred to as wicked. How was Er wicked? We are not told in the account. But if God says that someone is wicked, then, the person must be utterly wicked.For example, we are told this in the bible about the sons of Eli, Hophni and Phinehas: “Eli’s sons were wicked men; they had no regard for the LORD.” (1Sam 2:12NIV)

Did you see that? Even though these men were priests of God, He still regarded them as wicked. Why? They had no regard for Him. And because they had no regard for Him, they abused their positions as priests, oppressing, cheating and corrupting the people of God under their leadership. (Cf. 1Sam 2:13-36)

So, to be wicked is to act without regard for the Lord. Yes, to be wicked is to do things as though God did not exist and would not do anything whatsoever about whatever you do. But God will definitely do something about whatever each of us does. He will do something about it because He is the judge of all mankind and also possesses the power to put everyone where they belong

.If you, then, are wicked, don’t expect God to ignore your wickedness. He will not ignore it. No, He may not deal with you for your wickedness right away. But He will surely deal with it when the time is ripe. And when He does, you may not know how He will judge.

In Er’s case, God judged his wickedness with death. The man died before his father. Also, in the case of Eli’s sons, God judged them too with death. So, they died before their father. And who knows how many have died before their time because of their wickedness? Only God knows.

Well, the point I am making is don’t be wicked. Don’t treat people as if there were no God that would judge between you and them, regardless of what advantage you may have over them. Otherwise, you may just be calling for your own death before you are ready to embrace it.

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General Post The fruit of the Spirit

Title: God wants us to bear fruit

Date: June 22, 2025

Series: Fruit bearing

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God, as we see in Scriptures, wants those of us who are His children to bear fruit; He wants us to bring forth fruit. Let’s turn to St. John’s Gospel, chapter 15, and look at what Jesus has to say about that. From verse 8, it says: “This is to my Father’s glory, that you bear much fruit, showing yourselves to be my disciples.” (NIV)

So, bringing forth fruit or our bearing fruit is to God’s glory or it brings God glory. And Jesus here says that as we bring forth fruit, we are showing ourselves to be His disciples.

Now I’m just trying to lay a foundation here. So I may not be able to take much of this, this morning. But I want you to take note of the fact that God wants us to bring forth fruit because doing so brings Him glory.Then, skip to verse 16 of the same chapter: “You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you so that you might go and bear fruit – fruit that will last – and so that whatever you ask in my name the Father will give you.” (John 15:16NIV)

Here again, Jesus says, you did not choose me; instead, I chose you. We did not choose Him; He chose us. So, the reason we are saved is that He chose us. The reason you are born again is that He chose you.

In the Garden of Eden, Adam did not choose God; he chose the devil. So, it’s not in the natural man to choose God. The natural man will always choose the devil, ever since he fell. But we have been saved because God chose us, because He chose us and called us to Himself.

Yes, He called us back to himself. That’s why we are now saved. And Jesus is placing His fingers on that here, saying that we did not choose Him; He chose us.Not only did He choose us, He also appointed us. Appointed us to do what? Appointed us to bear fruit! Of course, in dealing with this, we are going to be looking at:

– Why God wants us to bear fruit.- What sort of fruit He wants us to bear.

– How do we bear fruit as much as he wants us to?

– The consequences of not bringing forth fruit.

Those are the things we are going to be looking at as we are dealing with this together. And I want you to keep them in mind. Well, here, Jesus is already showing us one of the reasons He expects us to bear fruit. He expects us to bear fruit because He has appointed us to do so. So, it is consistent with God’s purpose for our lives that we bring forth fruit. He wants us to bring forth fruit. He chose us to bring forth fruit.

He appointed us to bring forth fruit. We can summarize all that by saying that we have been recreated by Him to bring forth fruit. So, we are not expected to do anything contrary because that’s what He has appointed us to do.I’ll take you back to the first few verses of the chapter. And what is said in them has to do with our relationship with Him. What I am saying is that apart from the fact that He has appointed us to bring forth fruits, we also have a relationship with Him that puts us in a position to bring forth fruit.

You know, you may be appointed to do something, but it does not mean that you have the ability to do that thing. That somebody has chosen you to do something or appointed you to do something does not mean that you have what it takes to do that thing. You may not have what it takes to do that thing. And if you do not have what it takes to do that thing, even though you have been appointed to do it, you are still going to be a failure at it.

So, though the Lord has appointed us to bring forth fruit, if we do not have what it takes to bring forth fruit, we are still going to fail. It doesn’t matter how hard we try. A lot of times people try hard to do things, yet they fail. And the question they are not asking themselves is if they have the ability to do what they are trying to do.

For instance, you hear of students who have written maybe WAEC examinations like three or four times and they are yet to make all their papers. And they are telling themselves to try harder. But see, this is not a question of how hard you try. It’s a question of ability. If you have the ability to do something, then it will be worth it to try and try to get that thing done. That is because you already have the ability to do it. Yes, maybe there are certain things that are limiting you. And you might want to deal with those things. So, in the process of trying, you are dealing with those things that are limiting you.

But if you don’t have the ability to do something, it doesn’t matter how hard you try, you can only fail. Because the ability is not there. So, if we do not have the ability to bring forth fruit, it doesn’t matter how hard we try, we won’t be able to do so.Now we may be trying to live to please God. But pleasing God is not really something that we try to do. Of course, we may tell ourselves to make effort. And there are scriptures that point to the fact that we should make effort, that we should try to do what pleases God.

But essentially, we must have what it takes to please Him. Because if we do not have what it takes to please Him, then it doesn’t matter how hard we try to please Him. We won’t be able to please Him.If I find myself struggling to do something, I don’t want to struggle harder. I want to ask myself, “Do I have the strength to do this? Do I have what it takes to do this?” Struggling harder is not the solution. Gaining sufficient strength to do it is the solution.

If you are engaged in a fight with somebody, maybe a physical fight or a physical struggle, how do you win? Now, growing up, some of us would probably have been exposed to situations in which you have to physically fight somebody. But you may fight somebody 10 times and the person will beat you 10 times. Or let’s go to the field of boxing. You can meet an opponent in a boxing ring 5 times and he will beat you 5 times. He will beat you all the time.

Why? Now if somebody is telling you, “Let’s try harder,” the person is going to get you killed. Because trying harder is not the solution. The solution is, “Do you have the ability to contend with this person?” So, if you want to contend with the person and win, you will need to gain ability; you need to gain strength; you need to gain skills.

And until you are sure that you have gained sufficient strength, sufficient skills and sufficient stamina to deal with the person in the ring, don’t bother. Because one of these days, you may die in the ring. Some months ago, there was a Nigerian boxer that died. He died in the ring. And as I was reading the review, it was said that he had been told that he was not medically fit for that fight.

So, he was not supposed to be in the ring in the first place. If fact, he had already cancelled the fight. But they increased the money he would get, if he should fight. They told him, “Okay, what if we pay you additional money, will you still fight.”

Now I can’t remember the money that was added to what he was supposed to be paid. But he agreed to the fight. And I watched the clip, how he died. It wasn’t that he took any serious hits. He just staggered and fell down at some point. And the rest is now history.

So, I’m saying that living to please God is not a function of trying to please him. It’s a function of having the ability to do so. And I’m saying that in the light of what we are looking at. Jesus says, “You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you to go and bring forth fruit.”

And I’m saying that must mean that we have what it takes to bring forth fruit. If we do not have what it takes to bring forth fruit, even though He’s appointed us to bring forth fruit, we won’t be able to bring forth fruit. But thankfully, we have what it takes to bring forth fruit because we have a relationship, a relationship with Him that puts us in the position to bring forth the kind of fruit that He’s asking us to bring forth.

We’re still going to look at the kind of fruit He wants us to bring forth, maybe not this morning, but we’re going to look at it. But let’s first of all look at what He says about our relationship with Him, that relationship that places us in the position to bring forth fruit, the kind of fruit that He wants us to bring forth.

So, let us go back to verse 5, the same gospel and the same chapter. And it says:“I am the vine and you are the branches. If you remain in me and I in you, you will bear much fruit. Apart from me, you can do nothing.” (John 15:5NIV)

Now the Lord is describing our relationship with him here. And how does he describe it? He refers to himself as the vine and to us as the branches.

That’s our relationship. The branches are a part of the vine, right? And what part of the vine brings forth fruit? What part of any tree brings forth fruit? The branch! So, the branch is a part of the tree, an inseparable part of the tree, to put it that way. And it is the part of the tree that brings forth fruit. If it is not in the tree, it doesn’t have a relationship with it. So, it cannot bring forth fruit. But as long as it’s in the tree, the tree supplies it with everything that it needs to bring forth fruit.

So, the reason branches bring forth fruit is that they are part of the tree. They don’t struggle to bring forth fruit. They are not supposed to try to bring forth fruit. They only need to be a part of the tree to bring forth fruit. Can you relate to what I’m talking about? And the Lord is saying that He is the vine and we are the branches.

So, we are a part of Him.We talk all the time about being in Christ. What does that even mean to you? When you tell yourself that you’re in Christ or when you say to others, “I am in Christ,” what does it mean to you? This is what it should mean to you: that you have a relationship with Him; that you are connected to Him; that He is your source and you are drawing from him.

Now because He is your source, there are things that you should naturally do. There are things that the doing of them should be natural for you. Bearing fruit should be natural for us. It should not be something that we’ll struggle to do. It should not be something that we’ll fight to do. It is something that should be natural for us. That is because we have a relationship. We have a relationship with the Lord that places us in that position where we can naturally bring forth fruit. But there are reasons He wants us to bring forth fruit. And He gives us two of them here [in John 15:5&16]:

– He has appointed us to do so.

– We have a relationship with Him that enables us to do so.

But then, before we begin to look at how to take advantage of that relationship to bring forth fruit, we need to know what sort of fruit He expects us to bear.

Because here He tells us that it brings God glory when we bring forth much fruit. But what sort of fruit? You know, I’ve heard this from several preachers: When Jesus says that He has chosen us and appointed us to bring forth fruit, He means that we are to be evangelizing. In other words, they are saying that the fruit He’s referring to has to do with soul winning, bringing people into the kingdom.

But before I really considered Scriptures carefully to see what they said about this matter, I always had issues with that reasoning. It just sounded somehow to me. It didn’t sound good in my ears. Well, the first thing we need to consider is that the only person that can save any soul is God Himself. None of us can save any soul God has not saved. So, it is not your preaching that will save people; it is God that will save them.

Yes, He may use your preaching to save them. But ultimately, He is the one that saves people. He is the one that makes people have faith to be saved. And if He does not make them have faith to be saved, it doesn’t matter how grand your sermon is, it won’t result in their salvation. So, we can’t save anybody. You cannot save anybody. I cannot save anybody. I do not have the power to save anybody. The word of God is very clear about that.

Now that’s one of the reasons Christians are warned not to marry unbelievers. Don’t have it in mind that you are going to change the person. Don’t have it in mind that, by the time the person is exposed to your faith, he’s going to have a changed mind. You do not have the power to change anybody’s mind. The only one with the power to change people’s minds is God. And He has not succeeded yet in changing people’s minds.

I mean, there are millions of people, billions of people in the world today. How many of them has God succeeded in changing their mind? God possesses all power, yet He’s not been able to employ that power to save everybody, to get everybody to be born again. So, what makes you think you can get anybody born again through your preaching? You can’t. That is God’s job.Well, I’m saying that when Jesus is talking about bringing forth fruit, He’s not referring to soul winning; He’s not referring to evangelizing.

Now that’s not to say that He doesn’t want us to evangelize. That’s not to say that He doesn’t want us to preach the gospel. He wants us to preach the gospel, based on the ability [and opportunities] that He has given to each of us. But the main thing, the main thing He’s asking us to do is to bear fruit. And the truth is that when we understand the nature of fruit He wants us to bear, and we are bearing it abundantly, we have no problems at all in saving souls. I’m telling you:

we’ll be making it easy for Him, very easy for Him to save souls, to bless lives, if we are bearing in abundance the fruit He wants us to bear.So, first, we need to know what sort of fruit He wants us to bear. Because if we do not know what sort of fruit He wants us to bear, then, we can’t tell whether we are bearing it or not.

Are you following my point? But let me just say this before I close, because my time is already up: He refers to Himself as the vine and we as the branches. So, if we are to bring forth fruit, think about it yourself, what sort of fruit do you think we should naturally bring forth? It makes sense to say we should naturally bring forth the fruit of His character, right?

So, when He’s asking us to bring forth fruit, He’s simply talking about bringing forth the fruit of His own character, the fruit of who He is. In other words, we are to manifest his character.Remember that it’s also Jesus that says a tree is known by its fruit (Matthew 12:33).

A tree is known by its fruit, not just by the leaves. A tree is not a mango tree just because it looks like a mango tree. If it is not bringing forth mangoes, at some point, you’re going to change your mind about it. Think about it. If you look at a tree that’s naturally supposed to bring forth mangoes and you start seeing oranges on the tree, are you not going to think that something is wrong somewhere?

So, when He’s saying that we are to bring forth fruit, having already shown us our relationship with Him, we should know that the kind of fruit He’s talking about has to do with His own character. He’s asking us to bring forth fruit that is consistent with His character.

Now I don’t want to press this further than that this morning. But I believe that, up to this point, you understand what I’m trying to share with you, right? Let’s bow our heads and thank God for His word.

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Title: Recognising your comforters

Series: From Pastor’s Desk

Number: Vol. 14, No. 7

Beloved: grace, mercy and peace be yours from God our Father and Jesus Christ our Lord. I am pleased to welcome you to another week of the month of June 2025. My prayer is that you will receive full comfort of the Spirit of God wherever you are hurting or downcast in your life. Amen.

Now one of the ways God comforts us in our moments of trials or challenges is by sending people to do things for us that will comfort us. For instance, Paul says this to the Corinthians about how God comforted them when they were in Macedonia: “For when we came into Macedonia, this body of ours had no rest, but we were harassed at every turn — conflicts on the outside, fears within. But God, who comforts the downcast, comforted us by the coming of Titus.” (2Cor 7:5-6NIV)

Did you see that? Paul was very clear about the fact that things were not easy for him and his companions at all when they were preaching the gospel in Macedonia. They were harassed and troubled everywhere they turned. That means they were always on the edge of trouble. So, fear was not far from them at all.How, then, did God take care of them during that period, so that they did not lose their mind and give up? It was by sending Titus, another ministry companion of theirs, to them. And what did Titus do when he came to them? Paul does not say in the account. But he does tell us that God comforted them through the coming of the man.

So, though they had been downcast before he came, they were comforted and refreshed in their spirits by his coming.In like manner, God can send people into our lives to comfort and lift us up in our trials. But are we going to recognise them? If Paul had not recognised Titus as the comforter sent by God to comfort and lift them up in Macedonia, would he not have missed his comfort? He would have missed it.

Yes, he and the others may have been praying to God for comfort from all their trials at the time. But if they had not recognised the one sent by God to comfort them, if they had simply seen his coming as an unnecessary burden, they would have missed the answer to their prayer.So, it is one thing for God to send us comforters in answer to our prayers; it is another thing to recognise them and allow them to comfort us. One of the reasons many of God’s people don’t enjoy comfort in their lives as they should is that they don’t recognise the people He has sent to comfort them.

Why? One main reason is that these people have their own weaknesses as well. Therefore, they can have behaviour that will irritate or anger or mislead others. And if we focus only on those wrong things in their lives, we may end up ignoring, abusing or even corrupting them and miss the comfort God has sent them to give to us.All of this is why we should learn to pray that God will always enable us to recognise those He is sending to our lives to comfort and lift us up, so that we will relate to them appropriately and fully enjoy their comfort. And may you be strengthened to daily take this seriously, in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Have a splendid week.

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Title: Should you help the wicked?

Series: Youth for Jesus

Number: Vol. 8, No. 5

“When Jehoshaphat king of Judah returned safely to his palace in Jerusalem, Jehu the seer, the son of Hanani, went out to meet him and said to the king, “Should you help the wicked and love those who hate the Lord? Because of this, the wrath of the Lord is on you.” (2Chronicles 19:1-2)

Why was the wrath of God on King Jehoshaphat? It was because he helped a wicked man. And who was the wicked man that he helped? It was King Ahab.

According to the story, Ahab once invited Jehoshaphat to join him in fighting against the Arameans over a place called Ramoth Gilead. He did that because Jehoshaphat had visited him. And why did Jehoshaphat visit him? He visited him because he was his in-law. (Cf. 1Kings 22:1-4; 2Chro 18:1-3)

Now is anything wrong with visiting our in-laws? No! On the contrary, it is something that is expected of us, if we take our relationship with them seriously and want it to continue to blossom. So, it was not wrong of Jehoshaphat to visit Ahab as his in-law.But then, Ahab was a wicked man. And it happened that the time Jehoshaphat visited him was the time God had set to judge and kill him.

Yet, in His mercy, He revealed through one of His prophets, Micaiah, to these kings that he had decreed death for Ahab. So, all that Ahab needed to do at that time to escape God’s judgment on his life was to respect and obey the divine revelation he was given. But he would not do that because he was wicked and did not have much regard for the Lord. Instead, he would go on with his plan of going to war against the Arameans, especially since he had the support of his false prophets. (Cf. 1Kings 22:5-28; 2Chro 18:4-27)

Unfortunately, even though Jehoshaphat could see that his in-law was godless and also disobeying a divine revelation, he still joined him in going to war against the Arameans. And if God had not shown him mercy, he would have perished along with Ahab on the battle field. But God showed him mercy and saved him. (Cf. 1Kings 22:29-38; 2Chro 18:28-36)

However, when he came back to his own country, God sent a messenger to him to ask him if it was right to help the wicked or to team up with those who hate the Lord? And did he answer this question or not? We are not told in the account. But we are told that he did not learn much from what had happened to him. That was because he still later made an alliance with Ahaziah, the son of Ahab. He agreed with him to construct a fleet of trading ships. And God’s wrath manifested against him, as he had been told before, and those ships were destroyed. So, he lost his huge investment on them. What a shame! (Cf. 2Chro 20:35-37)

Now why was Jehoshaphat being continually dragged into such messy situations? Why was he continually being exposed to God’s wrath, even though he was a godly man? The reason was his marriage ties with the house of Ahab. If he had not been in marriage ties with that family, he would not have found himself helping them to promote their wickedness and so exposing himself to all kinds of danger.

So, if we don’t want to find ourselves helping the wrong people, we need to watch what sort of relationships we get ourselves into. Yes, we may love God and be truly devoted to Him. But as long as we are in certain work, family or neighbourhood relationships, we may find ourselves helping those with us to promote things contrary to the will of God. And that will surely expose us to God’s judgment or satanic afflictions.What, then, do we do, if we are already in legitimate relationships that keep exposing us to God’s wrath or satanic afflictions?

First, we need to continually pray that God, in His mercy, will do the needful about such relationships for us to have peace of mind over them. Second, we must make up our minds never again to help those with us in those relationships to do anything contrary to the will of God. And will that be easy? It may not be easy at all. But it will be easier and better than unduly exposing ourselves to God’s wrath or satanic afflictions.

So, mind yourself.

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Songs of the Spirit_.J.0_Lawal

Recommended Citation: Lawal, J. O. (2025, February 23). Songs of the Spirit. Single Sermons.

In Colossians, chapter 3, verse 16, Paul says this:

“Let the message of Christ dwell among you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom, through psalms, hymns, and songs from the Spirit, singing to God with gratitude in your hearts.” (NIV)

I have shared some things with us along from this verse of the Scriptures before. Yet I want to speak to us from it again this morning, as we sing together. Now I want you to know that what we are doing this morning is spiritual. It is not a waste of time. It is not something we are doing to just fill in the gap. It is something spiritual.

Well, from the verse I just read to you, Paul makes it clear to us that we can do two major things with singing in the church. First, he says we can instruct ourselves with songs. Yes, we can teach and admonish ourselves with songs. We can educate ourselves in the things of the Spirit with songs. And we have done some of that this morning. Haven’t we?

Then he also tells us that we can praise God or minister to Him with songs. We can worship God, praise Him and bless His heart with songs. That is why he tells us to sing to God with gratitude in our hearts to God. In other words, we are to express our gratitude to God with songs.

There is, of course, another use of songs in the church, which Paul does not mention here. It is that we can pray to God with songs. And when we talk to Him with songs, He will answer us, as long as we are talking to Him according to His will. That is why Paul tells us in that text that our songs must be songs from the Spirit. That means they must be spiritual songs, songs that are in line with the will of God.

In any case, when we begin to sing like this, all kinds of things will begin to happen to us and for us in the realm of the spirit, especially when we are doing so from our hearts and according to the will of God. Truly, we may not be able to immediately tell what is going on when we are singing spiritual songs from our hearts. But things are surely going on.

For instance, in Acts of the Apostles, chapter 16, we are told of how Paul and Silas were arrested in Philippi for setting free a young lady that was possessed of a demon. They were arrested. They were beaten. And they were jailed. But then, as Luke tells us, in the middle of the night – about midnight – Paul and Silas began to pray and to sing hymns. They could have been depressed because of their situation. Remember that they had been unjustly treated. And that was enough to give anyone a reason to feel sad or sorrowful and to pity himself.

But these men did not pity themselves. They did not allow depression or anxiety to take over. Yes, they had every reason to be depressed. But they chose not to be depressed. And all kinds of bad or negative things may be happening around you or to you too, if you allow yourself to become depressed because of them, it is your choice. That is because you can choose not to be depressed. You can choose not to be anxious. You can choose not to be afraid.

Now you may look at your life and see that things are not going as they are meant to be going. And that can indeed be what is obvious. I mean that it may be obvious to everyone around you that your life is a mess, that it is out of order and place. And you can allow that to depress you. Or you can choose to praise God and bless His name.

These men – Paul and Silas – chose to pray and to sing to God. And they were not doing this quietly, as Luke further points out. Everybody heard them, as they prayed and sang to God. All the prisoners with them in the prison could clearly hear them as they prayed and sang hymns. That means they were excited about it. That means with all the pains that they must have been feeling in their bodies, with all the bruises and cuts on them and with the horrible odour of blood that must have been coming from them, they still chose to pray and to sing aloud.

Well, as they were doing that, suddenly a miracle happened. They were not expecting it. They were just doing what they knew to be right. Remember that the word of God says, “Rejoice in the Lord always. Again, I say, ‘Rejoice!’” And to rejoice always means to rejoice always. This ‘always’ means all the time, including when you have no money in your bank accounts, including when failure is staring you in the face, including when your body feels weak. (Cf. Philippians 4:4)

So, it is not the circumstances that should determine your devotion to rejoicing in the Lord always. Rather, it is the word of God. The word of God says, “Rejoice in the Lord always.” That is God’s command to you. That was what Paul and Silas were obeying. And as they were obeying it, there was an earthquake that shook the prison where they were being held to its very foundations. Immediately, their chains and those of all the prisoners with them fell loose. Also, all the prison doors were flung open. In fact, it was so serious that the jailer was going to kill himself, for he thought that all the prisoners had escaped.

But Paul quickly stepped in and said to him “We are all here. Don’t harm yourself.” And that same night, salvation came into the house of that man. Why? The reason was that two men chose to act differently. They chose to go against the tides. They chose to do the will of God. And if you too will choose to do the will of God this morning, praising Him, miracles will happen in your life. Yes, miracles will happen around you. Miracles will happen in your home. Concerning your business miracles will happen. Concerning your job miracles will happen. Concerning your academics miracles will happen. There will be earthquakes that will destroy the limitations in your life. There will be earthquakes that will destroy barriers. There will be earthquakes that will remove the mountains hindering you. There will be earthquakes that will bring to you all that God wants you to have, in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Let us continue to bless His name this morning.

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His Eyes Are Always On Them_J.O.Lawal

Recommended Citation: Lawal, J.O. (2025, March 2). His eyes are always on them. From Pastor’s Desk, 12(44).

Beloved: grace, mercy and peace be yours from God our Father and Jesus Christ our Lord. It is with great pleasure that I welcome you to the third month of this year, the month of March 2025. My prayer is that God will beautify your life and home afresh in the month, in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Now, as we begin this new month, I want to encourage you with these words from a Psalm of David:

“But the eyes of the LORD are on those who fear him, on those whose hope is in his unfailing love, to deliver them from death and keep them alive in famine.” (Ps 33:18-19NIV)

What do we see here? We see that God’s eyes are always on those who fear Him and who have put their hope in His unfailing love. In other words, He never takes His eyes off them, regardless of where they go or find themselves.

Why, then, are God’s eyes always on such people? First, it is so that He may deliver them from death. Remember that it was David that said these words. And he said them as a testimony of God’s goodness to him. God continually protected him from death, even though his enemy, King Saul, took all kinds of steps to kill him and prevent him from sitting on the throne of Israel. Eventually, it was his enemy that lost his life. But he went on to become the king that God had always wanted him to be.

In the same vein, if we too are living in the fear of God and have all our trust in Him, not in human beings or their schemes, we will always enjoy His protection from death and destruction. That means it does not matter what Satan does to destroy or kill us, he will not succeed. But we will go on to become on all that God wants us to be in life.

Second, God’s eyes are always on those who fear Him and whose hope are in His unfailing love in order to keep them alive in famine. That means it does not how bad the economy of a place becomes, God will always see to it that those who are living to honour Him and who have their eyes fixed on Him do not go hungry. In fact, as He made Isaac wealthy in a time of famine, He is able to make them wealthy too. (Cf. Gen 26)

In like manner, even though the economy of this country is poor at the moment, if we will continually live in the fear of God and put our hope in Him, He will see to it that we do not hungry. How will He do that? I cannot tell you. That is because I wouldn’t know unless He tells me. But I do know that if we will not throw our confidence in Him away, He will see to it that we do not lack any good thing, even though we are living in a time of famine.

So, maintain your faith in God, regardless of what is happening around you and regardless of what you have or do not have at the moment. Also, keep on living in His fear, even though everyone around you has given themselves to unrighteousness. And He will see to it that you are never put to shame.

Have a lovely March 2025.

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The Baby Jesus Story _ Mary Oladele

Hey little one! Do you want to hear the most amazing story ever?

A long, long time ago, God sent His very special Son, Jesus, to the world because He loves us so, so much! Jesus was born as a tiny baby, just like you were once a baby. His mommy, Mary, and daddy, Joseph, took care of Him, and He grew up to be kind and loving to everyone.

Jesus did wonderful things—He made sick people better, He gave food to hungry people, and He even calmed a big, scary storm with just His words! But most of all, Jesus came to show us how much God loves us.

But guess what? Some people didn’t like that Jesus was saying He was God’s Son. They got really mad and did something very sad. They put Jesus on a big wooden cross, and He died. It was a very, very sad day. But do you know what? That wasn’t the end of the story!

After three days—one, two, three—something AMAZING happened! Jesus came back to life! He wasn’t dead anymore! God made Him alive again to show everyone that His love is bigger and stronger than anything, even death!

And do you know what that means? It means Jesus is alive forever, and He loves YOU so, so much! One day, we will get to be with Him forever too, and that’s the happiest ending of all!

Isn’t that the best story ever? 😊 Drop a comment if you are blessed by this story.

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Show your love for Him – By J.0. Lawal


Lawal, J. O. (2025, February 23). Show your love for Him. From Pastor’s Desk, 12(43).

Senior Pastor Alaythia Bible Church

Beloved: grace, mercy, and peace be yours without measure from God our Father and Jesus Christ our Lord. It is with great pleasure that I welcome you to the last week of the month of February 2025. My prayer is that God will make available for you in the week every good thing your heart desires to have this month that you are yet to have. Amen.

Now, as we begin this new week, I want to encourage you with the following Scripture about Solomon and how he proved himself worthy of God’s favour:

“Solomon showed his love for the LORD by walking according to the statutes of his father David, except that he offered sacrifices and burned incense on the high places. The king went to Gibeon to offer sacrifices, for that was the most important high place, and Solomon offered a thousand burnt offerings on that altar.” (1Kings 3:3-4NIV)

How did Solomon show his love for God, as we see in this bible text? First, he showed it by walking according to the godly instructions given to him by his father. In other words, he was living according to the will of God. Second, he showed his love for God by giving to Him. He gave Him a thousand burnt offerings in one day. And there is no record in the bible that anyone had proved his love for God in this manner before.

Well, because Solomon took his love for God beyond words of mouth by living according to His will and also by being generous to Him, God also appeared to him in a dream to reward him. God asked him to ask for anything that he wanted Him to do for him. That, of course, was how he became the wisest and richest man of all the people of his time. (Cf. 1Kings 3:5:15; 2Chro 1:1-12)

What is this teaching us? It is that it is not enough for us to be telling God that we love Him or telling people that we love God; we also need to daily prove our love for Him. And how do we prove our love for Him? First, it is by living according to His will. No one who will not live according to the will of God should say, “I love for God.” That will be nothing but a lie. If you truly love Him, then, you will not only be devoted to finding out what He wants but will also be doing what He wants.

The second way to prove that we love God is by being generous to Him. Can we truly say that we love someone that we are not generous to? No! If we love people, we will be generous to them. We will want to give them anything that is within our ability to make them happy. In fact, sometimes, because of our love for some people, we may even go beyond our ability in giving to them. And if we truly love God too, there are times we will go beyond our ability in giving to Him.

A woman once proved her love for Jesus by pouring a jar of some very expensive perfume on His head. Those who saw this, of course, were very angry with her. Why? They thought the perfume she poured on Jesus’ head was too expensive to be wasted like that. But Jesus said told them immediately that what she did was not a waste at all. On the contrary, what she did was done to show her love for Him. Then what she did, according to the Lord, was also done to prepare His body for His burial, even though she had not known this herself before that time. That means it was actually the Spirit of God that led her to do what she did. And the reward was that her name would be mentioned wherever the gospel of the Lord is preached. (Cf. Matt 26:6-13; Mark 14:1-9; John 12:1-8)

So, we can even say that one of the ways to know how yielded we are to the Spirit of God is through our generosity to God. How generous are you, then, to Him? How generous are you to His servants? Then how devoted are you to living your life to please Him? These are the things that will let us know whether you truly love Him or not. My prayer is that what you call love for God will always prove to be genuine and not counterfeit, in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Have a pleasant week.

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Don’t entrust yourself to them | J.O. Lawal

“Now while he was in Jerusalem at the Passover Feast, many people saw the miraculous signs he was doing and believed in his name. But Jesus would not entrust himself to them, for he knew all men. He did not need man’s testimony about man, for he knew what was in a man.” (John 2:23-25NIV)

Why would the Lord not entrust Himself to the people of His time, even those who claimed to believe in His name? As we see in our opening text, one main reason for that was that He knew what was in them. And what was in them? Deceit!

The bible says, “The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it?” (Jer 17:9NIV) Whose heart is the Lord describing here? It is the heart of the natural man, the heart of the man that has not been recreated. And the Lord is saying that his heart is deceitful and incurable. In other words, you cannot trust or rely on what is coming out of his heart. Otherwise, you may end up regretting it.

You can now understand why our Lord Jesus would not entrust Himself to the people of His time. He knew that He could not rely on them to always believe in Him and to always stand by Him. And was He right about them or not? He was right about them.

At least, from what we see in Scriptures, when He was arrested and unjustly tried and condemned to death, most of those who claimed to believe in Him and who used to praise Him were nowhere to be found. Only the voices of those who wanted Him to be crucified could be heard. And if He, for any reason, had thought or expected that He would have some people to stand with Him and speak in His favour, He would have been grossly disappointed. But He was not at all disappointed because He never expected any of them to stand with Him and for Him on that occasion. He was prepared to stand alone, knowing that God would not leave Him, even if everyone else forsook Him. (Cf. John 16:32)

In like manner, don’t for any reason entrust yourself to people, especially those who do not know God. Instead, always rely on God. That is because people, including those who know God, may forsake you when you are seriously counting on them. They may forsake you because their hearts have never been with you. Or they may forsake you because they see your circumstances as too frightening or overwhelming for them.

To say the fact, you too may have in the past forsaken certain individuals counting on you. You may have reasons that seemed legitimate to you for doing so. But that will not change the fact that you failed someone that was relying on you to stand with them and for them. And only God can speak of the extent to which that must have affected the person.

In any case, the point I am making is that human beings are not naturally reliable but naturally unreliable. Yes, those who have been recreated by God among them can be reliable because God is at work in them. But it is not every time that all of them yield themselves to God to make them reliable. So, if you entrust yourself to them, they may fail you. And where that is the case, you may become terribly disappointed and even bitter.

That, by the way, is why some people find it hard to forgive certain individuals who have failed them in life. They entrusted themselves to them instead of entrusting themselves to God. And when they failed them, they could not handle the hit, the disappointment. So, they became horribly bitter and unforgiving. Sadly, there have been cases in which it was the bitterness that such people harboured in their hearts that destroyed them, not even the challenges that they actually faced.

All of this is why you must not entrust yourself to anyone but to God alone. That is because only He is ever reliable. And as long as your dependence is in Him, you will not be disappointed or bitter, if men should fail you. Instead, you will know that you will be sustained by Him, irrespective of what you are faced with. Then, like Jesus, you too will be able to say, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.”

Suggested Citattion

Lawal J.O. (Feb 19, 2025). Don’t entrust yourself to them. Youth For Jesus Series, 7(41).

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