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Fire in my Bones Youth for Jesus

Title: Be ready for your season

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Series: Youth for Jesus

Number: Vol. 8, No. 9

“Be very careful, then, how you live — not as unwise but as wise, making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil.” (Eph 5:15-16NIV)

Who is Paul talking to here? He is talking to me. He is talking to you. He is talking to anyone who cares to listen.Now what point is he making to us through what he says? It is that we are to live wisely. And why are we to live wisely? The reason is that we are living in evil days. That means there is enough evil in the world every day to destroy any of us or to make our lives meaningless. And if we are not living wisely, then, our lives can only amount to nothing, that is, if they are not prematurely cut short.

So, we must be determined to live wisely. And how do we live wisely? As Paul goes on to tell us in that text, it is by making the most of every opportunity. That, of course, means that there are opportunities for us in these evil days to make sense out of living. And it is only those who make the most of these opportunities that will be ready to attain the heights God wants them to attain in life when the season for their elevation comes.

As we are told in the bible, God has seasons for lifting people up to different levels of greatness, importance or usefulness in life (1Peter 5:6). But it is not everyone that is always ready when the time comes for God to lift them up or help them.

For example, when it was time for God to end the wilderness experience of the Israelites that Moses brought out of Egypt and take them into the Promised Land, they were not ready to go in. But all the difficulties they had experienced, all the words God had spoken to them and all the miracles He had performed for them were meant to make them ready for that moment Yet they were not ready for it. So, they ended up spending forty more years in the wilderness before the Promised Land could be theirs to possess and enjoy. (Cf. Num 13-14)

In like manner, the word of God that comes to us day after day, the miracles we are experiencing or witnessing and the various circumstances we are going through in life are all supposed to make us ready for the seasons in which God will elevate us.

But if we are not making the most of them to strengthen our faith and to train ourselves to be responsible, faithful, patient, humble, loving and forgiving, we will simply find out that we are not ready when our season of elevation comes to us from God. Then who knows how many days or years it may take again for us to be ready, that is, if we ever become ready.

So, instead of complaining about your life’s circumstances, however ugly they may seem, learn to apply the word of God and His goodness to you in making the most of these circumstances to make yourself ready for your next season of elevation. That was how Joseph functioned. He did not waste his time and energy in complaining about the miseries of his life.

Instead, he used God’s favour that was on his life to make the most of the opportunities of his evil days to prepare himself for his season of elevation. And when that day came, he was more than ready to ascend. May that be your experience too in every season of elevation that comes to you from God.

Amen.

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Fire in my Bones Youth for Jesus

Title: Wasted on an empty head

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Series: Youth for Jesus

Number: Vol. 8, No. 8

“Like a gold ring in a pig’s snout is a beautiful face on an empty head.” (Proverbs 11:22MSG)

Those are Solomon’s words to us. And he does not say them to discredit beauty. Beauty is good! Beauty is a gift from God. So, we ought to appreciate it in anyone who has been endowed with it.However, beauty alone is not enough to attain greatness in life.

Yes, beauty may open certain doors of greatness for you. But if you lack God’s favour, good sense, character and adequate measure of education and skills, those doors of greatness may just be wasted.Look at Esther of bible days, for example. Her beauty made room for her among those being considered as queen for King Xerxes. But she needed more than her beauty to become queen. She also needed God’s favour, wisdom and character.

Thankfully, she had them all. (Cf. Esther 2)As we see in the account, the moment the king’s Eunuch in charge of the harem saw her, he just loved her and began to treat her differently from all the other girls that were brought to him. That’s favour. Then when it was her time to go to the king, she did not request for anything else apart from what that man had told her to take along. So, she ended up becoming queen. That’s wisdom. (Cf. Esther 2:8-16)

Moreover, after she had become queen, she continued to listen to the counsel of her uncle, Mordecai, the man who had raised her like his own daughter. So, she continued to thrive and prosper. That’s character. (Cf: Esther 2:20)You can see, then, that you need more than beauty to thrive and prosper in life. Otherwise, you will be wasting the good opportunities to shine that God may be using your beauty to bring to you.

And where that is the case, the words of Solomon that say, “Like a gold ring in a pig’s snout is a beautiful face on an empty head,” will be true concerning you. In other words, beauty will have been wasted on you, wasted on an empty head.Now you may know one or two people that what we are talking about is true concerning them.

Beauty has been wasted on them, for they lack the qualities needed to make it shine. And is that what you too want? Do you really want people to be saying that God has wasted beauty on you? Well, that is what they will most likely be saying, if all you have got apart from your beauty is an empty head. And this is not applicable to beauty alone; it is also applicable to other natural advantages or gifts you have received from God.

If all you have apart from these natural advantages or gifts is an empty head, you will surely be making a waste of God’s gifts.All this is why you should learn to pray that God will daily equip you with everything you need to make whatever natural endowments He has blessed you with worth it in life. Then you must not be lazy. Instead, you must drive yourself to daily take advantage of every opportunity you have to train and develop yourself to be fit for greatness in life.

That way, as God is using your natural endowments to open doors of favour for you, you will not be using your hands to shut them, simply because you have got nothing else apart from an empty head.

Cheers!

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Title: Change the content

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Series: Youth for Jesus

Number: Vol. 8, No. 7

“You brood of vipers, how can you who are evil say anything good? For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of. A good man brings good things out of the good stored up in him, and an evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in him.” (Matthew 12:34-35NIV)

Those are the words of our Lord Jesus to us on how to be good people or bad people. And how do I become either a good person or a bad one? It is all about what I deposit or invest in my life.As our Lord asks in our opening text, “How can someone who is full of poison say or do anything good?” It is not possible. That person will have to change the content of his life for that to happen.

Otherwise, regardless of how hard he tries, he can never say anything good, unless, of course, God borrows his mouth for a moment.So, do you want to be a good person, in word and in conduct, begin to store goodness in your life.

Yes, begin to deliberately load yourself with words, thoughts and images of goodness. And you can do that by exposing yourself continually to the word of God. That is because His word is the word of goodness. And if you feed on it long enough, it will fill you with sufficient power of goodness to recreate your heart and also your conduct. Then you will find yourself unconsciously and naturally exhibiting and promoting goodness.

In like manner, if you really want to be or remain a bad person, you just need to feed yourself long enough with bad words, thoughts and images. And before you know it, everyone around you will have no doubt whatsoever about the fact that you are Satan’s firstborn. That is because you will be utterly bad and corrupt.

But then, I also need to say that even if you do not want to be a bad person but a good one, as long as you keep feasting on bad and useless words, thoughts and images, you will not be able to stop yourself from being a bad, corrupt and useless person. It is just what it is.

Similarly, even if you do not want to be a good person but a bad one, as long as you continue to feed on the word of God’s goodness, filling yourself with good thoughts and images through it, you won’t be able to help yourself from manifesting goodness.

So, whether your life will manifest goodness or evil all depends on the content of your heart. What, then, do you want in manifestation in your life, goodness or evil? Well, all you need is to change the content of your heart accordingly. My counsel, nevertheless, is that you change the content to what is good.C

heers!

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Fire in my Bones Youth for Jesus

Title: Act your part

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Series: Youth for Jesus|Number: Vol. 8, No. 6

“‘My son,’ the father said, ‘you are always with me, and everything I have is yours.” (Luke 15:31NIV)

Who said these words? It was the father of the prodigal son that said them. And who did he say them to? He said them to his elder son?Now why did he say these words to the young man? The reason was that he was complaining that he was not being fairly treated by him.

Look at what he actually said to him:”But he answered his father, ‘Look! All these years I’ve been slaving for you and never disobeyed your orders. Yet you never gave me even a young goat so I could celebrate with my friends. But when this son of yours who has squandered your property with prostitutes comes home, you kill the fattened calf for him!’ (Luke 15:29-31NIV)

What do we see from this young man’s protest to his father? We see anger. We see frustration. We also see bitterness. But should he have been angry, frustrated and bitter in this sense? No! Why, then, were these things present in his life? They were present there because he would not live in the consciousness of who he was. They were present there because he would not act his part as the elder son of his father and heir to everything the man had.He, as he pointed out to his father, had been slaving himself for him for years.

In other words, he had been doing all kinds of jobs for the man, including those meant for servants or slaves. But who asked him to act like that? Was it his father? It could not have been his father.Truly, he was meant to obey his father in everything good and right. But he was not meant to do that as a slave but as a son. In other words, he was to do whatever his father asked him to do, not with the consciousness of someone being used but with the consciousness of one that would in the long run enjoy the fruit of all that he was doing.

Mind you, as his younger brother pointed out when he came back to his senses, even their father’s servants were living in some measure of luxury (Luke 15:17). Therefore, neither of them had any legitimate reason to be living like a slave.

Unfortunately, he did not fully appreciate this. So, he would not act his part and enjoy himself as a son and heir to all that their father had. Instead, he was waiting for his father to command him to enjoy what already belonged to him before he would do so.

But he, unlike his foolish younger brother, had the training, discipline and wisdom needed to enjoy his inheritance. All he needed was to appreciate the fact that all that his father had belonged to him, especially since his younger brother had already received his own share of the inheritance, and act accordingly. But he would not learn the need to act his part until his foolish and reckless brother came back home and was treated to a great celebration by their father with part of his own inheritance.

In like manner, until certain people begin to enjoy in very unusual ways the benefits of our relationship with God or our relationships with some people, we may not wake up to the need to cherish what God has done for us or given to us. And where that is the case, the best thing for us to do is not to get angry, bitter or frustrated. That will only make a bad situation worse. Instead, it is to begin to act our part in such relationships and stop denying ourselves the enjoyment of what is ours.

So, start acting your part as a child and heir of God in every situation you find yourself. Yes, lay claim on everything that God has already said is yours without hesitation or fear, in the name of His Son Jesus. And it will be yours to enjoy. Then start acting your part in all your relationships with people.

Yes, fully act your part as a father, mother, husband, wife, child, sister, brother, church member, employer, employee, neighbour or citizen, as the case may apply. And may God readily bring about circumstances that will wake you up to begin to act your part in all your relationships, so that you may fully enjoy all that God has provided for your enjoyment through them. Amen.

Cheers!

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Fire in my Bones General Post Youth for Jesus

Title: Recognising your comforters

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Series: From Pastor’s Desk

Number: Vol. 14, No. 7

Beloved: grace, mercy and peace be yours from God our Father and Jesus Christ our Lord. I am pleased to welcome you to another week of the month of June 2025. My prayer is that you will receive full comfort of the Spirit of God wherever you are hurting or downcast in your life. Amen.

Now one of the ways God comforts us in our moments of trials or challenges is by sending people to do things for us that will comfort us. For instance, Paul says this to the Corinthians about how God comforted them when they were in Macedonia: “For when we came into Macedonia, this body of ours had no rest, but we were harassed at every turn — conflicts on the outside, fears within. But God, who comforts the downcast, comforted us by the coming of Titus.” (2Cor 7:5-6NIV)

Did you see that? Paul was very clear about the fact that things were not easy for him and his companions at all when they were preaching the gospel in Macedonia. They were harassed and troubled everywhere they turned. That means they were always on the edge of trouble. So, fear was not far from them at all.How, then, did God take care of them during that period, so that they did not lose their mind and give up? It was by sending Titus, another ministry companion of theirs, to them. And what did Titus do when he came to them? Paul does not say in the account. But he does tell us that God comforted them through the coming of the man.

So, though they had been downcast before he came, they were comforted and refreshed in their spirits by his coming.In like manner, God can send people into our lives to comfort and lift us up in our trials. But are we going to recognise them? If Paul had not recognised Titus as the comforter sent by God to comfort and lift them up in Macedonia, would he not have missed his comfort? He would have missed it.

Yes, he and the others may have been praying to God for comfort from all their trials at the time. But if they had not recognised the one sent by God to comfort them, if they had simply seen his coming as an unnecessary burden, they would have missed the answer to their prayer.So, it is one thing for God to send us comforters in answer to our prayers; it is another thing to recognise them and allow them to comfort us. One of the reasons many of God’s people don’t enjoy comfort in their lives as they should is that they don’t recognise the people He has sent to comfort them.

Why? One main reason is that these people have their own weaknesses as well. Therefore, they can have behaviour that will irritate or anger or mislead others. And if we focus only on those wrong things in their lives, we may end up ignoring, abusing or even corrupting them and miss the comfort God has sent them to give to us.All of this is why we should learn to pray that God will always enable us to recognise those He is sending to our lives to comfort and lift us up, so that we will relate to them appropriately and fully enjoy their comfort. And may you be strengthened to daily take this seriously, in Jesus’ name. Amen.

Have a splendid week.

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Title: Responding to threats

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Series: Youth for Jesus

Number: Vol. 8, No. 6

“But when Sanballat, Tobiah, the Arabs, the Ammonites and the people of Ashdod heard that the repairs to Jerusalem’s walls had gone ahead and that the gaps were being closed, they were very angry. They all plotted together to come and fight against Jerusalem and stir up trouble against it. But we prayed to our God and posted a guard day and night to meet this threat.” (Nehemiah 4:7-9NIV)

Why were Sanballat and his associates angry that the Jews of their time were making progress in repairing the walls of Jerusalem? They were angry because they would no longer be able to profit from the miseries of those Jews as they used to. And there are still people like Sanballat and his associates today, people who never want others to be free from oppression or poverty because they are profiting from it. Now when such people begin to see you making progress or doing things that will hinder them from profiting from your misery or misfortune, they will not be happy.

Besides, they may even begin to take steps to keep you where you are, where they can continue to profit from your sorrow and pain. And that was the case with Sanballat and his associates. Not only were they not happy with Nehemiah and the Jews because they were making progress in building the walls of Jerusalem and ending all the forms of harassment they had been experiencing, they also began to take steps towards causing them trouble.

How, then, did Nehemiah and the other leaders of the Jews respond to the threat of these people? They responded to it in two ways. First, they prayed to God about it. In other words, they asked God to pay attention to what their enemies were saying and planning against them, so that He may frustrate them.

Why? It was because they knew that unless God kept them safe from the threats and wicked plots of these wicked people, they would not be able to keep themselves safe from them.In like manner, when we are being threatened or harassed, we must learn to pray to God and not ignore what Satan is using people to do against us. Nehemiah and his people did not ignore Sanballat and his men.

Otherwise, they would have been caught by surprise and frustrated or destroyed. And if we too don’t want those threatening us to catch us unguarded, we had better never ignore their threats, however feeble they may seem.

Instead, we should pray to God about them, so that we may always have His protection from their evil thoughts and schemes. Otherwise, we may end up feeling sorry for ourselves when these enemies are through with us.The second thing Nehemiah and his people did was to keep watch on the activities of their enemies, day and night.

Why? It was so that they would be regularly updated on what they were doing and be able to prepare themselves for it. And that was a manifestation of wisdom on their part.See, it is not everything needed for our safety that God will do for us.

There are things He will not do to keep us safe because He knows that He has given us the wisdom, strength and resources to do them. And if we fail to do these things for ourselves, we will not be able to blame Him for not keeping us safe.Keeping an eye on what Sanballat and his associates were doing was something that Nehemiah and his men could do. And they did not expect God to do it for them. Instead, they did it themselves. And it paid off, for it made their enemies see that they were not stupid people that they could easily attack and frustrate.

In like manner, keeping an eye on what anyone threatening or harassing you is up to will let them know that you are not stupid but sharp and attentive.

In fact, it will make them think twice before they take any step against you. And since keeping an eye on them is something you can do, do it, instead of waiting for God to do it for you.

Otherwise, you may ignorantly or foolishly take steps that will make you fall into their traps.Who, then, are you going to blame, if that should happen? Yourself!

So, learn and embrace the wisdom of God to keep yourself safe from all kinds of threats. And may God’s loving eye continually watch over your life. Amen.

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Fire in my Bones General Post Youth for Jesus

Title: Should you help the wicked?

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Series: Youth for Jesus

Number: Vol. 8, No. 5

“When Jehoshaphat king of Judah returned safely to his palace in Jerusalem, Jehu the seer, the son of Hanani, went out to meet him and said to the king, “Should you help the wicked and love those who hate the Lord? Because of this, the wrath of the Lord is on you.” (2Chronicles 19:1-2)

Why was the wrath of God on King Jehoshaphat? It was because he helped a wicked man. And who was the wicked man that he helped? It was King Ahab.

According to the story, Ahab once invited Jehoshaphat to join him in fighting against the Arameans over a place called Ramoth Gilead. He did that because Jehoshaphat had visited him. And why did Jehoshaphat visit him? He visited him because he was his in-law. (Cf. 1Kings 22:1-4; 2Chro 18:1-3)

Now is anything wrong with visiting our in-laws? No! On the contrary, it is something that is expected of us, if we take our relationship with them seriously and want it to continue to blossom. So, it was not wrong of Jehoshaphat to visit Ahab as his in-law.But then, Ahab was a wicked man. And it happened that the time Jehoshaphat visited him was the time God had set to judge and kill him.

Yet, in His mercy, He revealed through one of His prophets, Micaiah, to these kings that he had decreed death for Ahab. So, all that Ahab needed to do at that time to escape God’s judgment on his life was to respect and obey the divine revelation he was given. But he would not do that because he was wicked and did not have much regard for the Lord. Instead, he would go on with his plan of going to war against the Arameans, especially since he had the support of his false prophets. (Cf. 1Kings 22:5-28; 2Chro 18:4-27)

Unfortunately, even though Jehoshaphat could see that his in-law was godless and also disobeying a divine revelation, he still joined him in going to war against the Arameans. And if God had not shown him mercy, he would have perished along with Ahab on the battle field. But God showed him mercy and saved him. (Cf. 1Kings 22:29-38; 2Chro 18:28-36)

However, when he came back to his own country, God sent a messenger to him to ask him if it was right to help the wicked or to team up with those who hate the Lord? And did he answer this question or not? We are not told in the account. But we are told that he did not learn much from what had happened to him. That was because he still later made an alliance with Ahaziah, the son of Ahab. He agreed with him to construct a fleet of trading ships. And God’s wrath manifested against him, as he had been told before, and those ships were destroyed. So, he lost his huge investment on them. What a shame! (Cf. 2Chro 20:35-37)

Now why was Jehoshaphat being continually dragged into such messy situations? Why was he continually being exposed to God’s wrath, even though he was a godly man? The reason was his marriage ties with the house of Ahab. If he had not been in marriage ties with that family, he would not have found himself helping them to promote their wickedness and so exposing himself to all kinds of danger.

So, if we don’t want to find ourselves helping the wrong people, we need to watch what sort of relationships we get ourselves into. Yes, we may love God and be truly devoted to Him. But as long as we are in certain work, family or neighbourhood relationships, we may find ourselves helping those with us to promote things contrary to the will of God. And that will surely expose us to God’s judgment or satanic afflictions.What, then, do we do, if we are already in legitimate relationships that keep exposing us to God’s wrath or satanic afflictions?

First, we need to continually pray that God, in His mercy, will do the needful about such relationships for us to have peace of mind over them. Second, we must make up our minds never again to help those with us in those relationships to do anything contrary to the will of God. And will that be easy? It may not be easy at all. But it will be easier and better than unduly exposing ourselves to God’s wrath or satanic afflictions.

So, mind yourself.

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Title: Our attitude means a lot

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Series: Youth for Jesus

Number: Vol. 8, No. 3

“But the LORD said to Gideon, “There are still too many men. Take them down to the water, and I will sift them for you there. If I say, ‘This one shall go with you,’ he shall go; but if I say, ‘This one shall not go with you,’ he shall not go.” So Gideon took the men down to the water. There the LORD told him, “Separate those who lap the water with their tongues like a dog from those who kneel down to drink.” Three hundred men lapped with their hands to their mouths. All the rest got down on their knees to drink. The LORD said to Gideon, “With the three hundred men that lapped I will save you and give the Midianites into your hands. Let all the other men go, each to his own place.”” (Judg 7:4-7NIV)

Who told Gideon that the men with him were too many? It was God. But how many were these men that God referred to as ‘too many’? They were just ten thousand. And these ten thousand men were supposed to go with Gideon in fighting the armies of the Midianites, the Amalekites and all the other eastern people of the time, armies that the bible describes as ‘impossible to count’. Yet the Lord said of these ten thousand men, “There are still too many men.” (Cf. Judg 6:5)

Now that must have sounded ridiculous to Gideon. That was because, as we see in the account, he had just sent twenty-two thousand men home because God had said that he should do so. But God did not ask him to send those men home for no reason. He asked him to send them home because they were already trembling with fear. In fact, they themselves were willing to go home. So, they really could not have contributed much to the success of Gideon’s army, even if they had stayed. On the contrary, they would have been liabilities to him, making him to feed them for contributing nothing. (Cf. Judg 7:1-3)

But then, when this man was about getting ready to go to battle with the ten thousand men left with him, as ridiculous as doing so seemed, God spoke up again and said that the men with him were still too many. “What? God, are you really serious about this?” he must have said to himself. And God was indeed serious this time too. He was not telling him that the men with him were still too many just for the fun of it. He was telling him so because those men were actually too many for the job to be done. That means there were many among them that would add nothing to the success of his army – they were just numbers.

Well, to prove to Gideon that the ten thousand men with him were too many for the battle ahead of him, God told him to subject them to a test of attitude. Sadly, only three hundred of these men passed that test. Others failed. Why did they fail? They failed because they had no attitude or culture of vigilance.

As we see in our opening bible text, what God used in judging the fitness and readiness of these men of Gideon for battle was the way they drank water. Three hundred of them drank water with vigilance, with the consciousness that they were at the battle front and should be ready all the time for the attack of their enemies. But the remaining nine thousand and seven hundred men settled down at the stream to drink water as though nothing was at stake. So, God rejected them and asked Gideon to send them home. And he obeyed.

Now did this man of God regret sending those people home? No, he did not regret it at all. Instead, he went on to overcome all his enemies with the three hundred vigilant and serious-minded men with him. That, of course, means that he did not need more than those three hundred men for success in that battle. Any additional person to their number, then, would have been nothing but a liability, excess luggage.What is the point of all this, in any case? The first is that our trust must always be in God and not in number or population. Number can fail us. But God can never fail us.

Also, it is not every time that more people will equal more success. So, for every project we are handling, we should be certain that it is only those that will contribute immensely to its success that we bring in. Otherwise, we may find ourselves spending much more than necessary in accomplishing our desired results.

The second lesson from the account is that our attitude towards the things of life means a lot to God. The way we sit, stand, walk, sleep, eat, drink, talk, listen and even look at things matters to Him. And we too should let it matter to us. Otherwise, there are certain truths He may never reveal to us, just as there are certain assignments or positions of greatness that He may never consider us for.

So, when He, directly or through others, is drawing your attention to certain attitudes or habits you need to drop or change, you had better listen and act fast. Or else, you may be disqualified from being a part of the celebration of certain victories in this life and in God’s heavenly kingdom.

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Title: Choosing Abimelech

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Series: Youth for Jesus

Number: Vol. 8, No. 2

“When the brothers repeated all this to the citizens of Shechem, they were inclined to follow Abimelech, for they said, “He is our brother.” They gave him seventy shekels of silver from the temple of Baal-Berith, and Abimelech used it to hire reckless adventurers, who became his followers.” (Judg 9:3-5NIV)

Who was Abimelech, the one mentioned in our opening text? He was the son that Gideon’s concubine bore for him. And what was so important about him that God cared to put his account in the bible for us? It was the fact that he was the first man to ever attempt to rule as king over the nation of Israel. (Cf. Judges 9:6)

Now, as we also see in the bible, when the people wanted Abimelech’s father, Gideon, to become their king, he frankly and humbly rejected their proposition. Look at how the bible puts that: “But Gideon told them, “I will not rule over you, nor will my son rule over you. The LORD will rule over you.”” (Judg 8:23-24NIV)

Did you see that? This man said that neither he nor any of his sons would be king over these people. Why? The reason was that he knew that the Lord is their king. Yes, he saved them from their enemies. But that was because the Lord called, sent and empowered him to do so. So, he knew that it would be foolish of him to try to take the place of God in their lives as their king. And even though he had seventy legitimate sons, none of them attempted to be king over the Israelites. Why? He had raised them well enough to know their place in the lives of the people. (Cf. Judges 6-8)

In like manner, we too must know our proper place in people’s lives. God may have used us or be using us to help them in various ways. That, however, does not make us God. We should, therefore, never attempt to take His place in anyone’s life. Otherwise, sooner or later, we will surely find ourselves facing challenges never meant for us in life. We may even end up undoing all the good God has used us to do.

So, let us be mindful of ourselves.In any case, as I pointed out before, Gideon had another son called Abimelech, the son of his concubine. And apparently, this son of his was not raised by him as others had been raised. That, of course, must have been the reason the thought of using his father’s legacy as a leverage to become king over Israel could enter his head. Unfortunately, the people of his mother’s side welcomed the idea and gave him a lot of money to hire ruthless men to accomplish his ambition.

Why? Well, as we see in our opening text, their reason was that he was related to them. In other words, he was their relative.So, the people of Shechem did not choose Abimelech as their leader because he was an upright, wise and godly man, one that righteous people could flourish under his leadership. Instead, they chose him because he was their relative. And because they did, a scoundrel was empowered to destroy all his father’s seventy sons (except his youngest son that escaped) and also all the good works God has used him to do for his nation.

Then, much later, he too and his sponsors went on to destroy themselves. What a pity! (Cf. Judges 9)What is the point of all this, at any rate? It is that we need to learn to choose our leaders for the right reasons. Someone may be our relative, a friend, a neighbour, a colleague at work or in school or a church leader. It does not mean that they have the right qualities to occupy certain leadership positions.

And if we should allow sentiments to lead us to choose and sponsor them to occupy a position that they have no ability or character to handle, we may someday realise that we have chosen Abimelech and empowered the devil himself to afflict and destroy much good. Then, like Abimelech and the people of Shechem, we too and the bad choice of leadership we have made may end up labouring hard to destroy ourselves.

Now would something like that not be bad and distressing? It would! But it is something that is happening in many places all around the world, even today. People and the leaders they have chosen for themselves are cursing themselves and also labouring hard to destroy themselves. And if we want to put a stop to a repetition of such mess, we had better stop allowing sentiments to drive us to choose Abimelech.

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Fire in my Bones Youth for Jesus

It is simply a joke

fire in my bones
fire in my bones

Series: Youth for Jesus

Number: Vol. 8, No. 1

“If anyone considers himself religious and yet does not keep a tight rein on his tongue, he deceives himself and his religion is worthless.” (James 1:26NIV)

Who is James talking to in our opening text? He is talking to those who consider themselves to be religious. And do we have people who think of themselves as religious? We do! Yes, we have people who see themselves as men and women who know God, love God, worship God and have God’s ears.

Now is anything wrong with seeing ourselves in that light? Well, James does not say that something is wrong with seeing ourselves as those who know God, who know where He lives and who also know what He eats. But he tells us that this view of ourselves ought to have some serious impact on what comes out of our mouths. Otherwise, we are simply lying to ourselves about knowing God and worshiping Him. That means our religion is worthless.

Sadly, we have many today who think of themselves as God’s deputies but who exercise no control whatsoever over what comes out of their mouths. These ones say anything that comes to their minds, without weighing it to see whether it is good or bad or whether it honours God or dishonours Him. And if anyone tries to correct them or to show them that they are supposed to be talking like those who know God and not like little devils, they will not be slow at all to abuse or curse the person as well.

Now perhaps you are like that. You can abuse or curse anyone and anything. You can even get the dead to be stirred up in their graves through your abusive words. Yet you call yourself a Christian or a child of God. The word of God is coming to you now and telling you that you are self-deceived. Truly, you may think that you know God and are serving Him.

But you are simply a joker. Your religion is worthless. In other words, what you are doing in your worship of God makes no sense to Him at all. And that is because your so-called relationship with Him has not yet changed you.See, when a man comes into a relationship with God, the first obvious change that will be seen in his life has to do with the way he talks. He will no longer want to speak carelessly or loosely. Instead, he will want to speak love and grace.

Yes, this may initially prove difficult for him to do, especially if he has been a loose talker all his life. But he will begin to make effort by the power of the Spirit of God in him to speak differently. Yes, he will begin to make effort to show through his words that he is no longer a sinner. And if he continues like that and does not stop, it will not be long before he realises that loose taking is no longer an option for him.

So, if you are still loose in the way you talk, if nothing appears to be too corrupt or unclean for you to say with your mouth, you are either saying that you don’t know God at all or have utterly forgotten that you have been saved by Him. And it does not matter what religious title or titles you carry around on your head, your religion is worthless – it is simply a joke.If you, then, do not want your religion to remain a joke, you have to begin to put a tight rein on your tongue.

That means you have to now begin to teach your tongue not to say just anything that comes to your mind. Yes, impure, corrupt and hurtful things may still want to come out of your mouth. But you must not allow them to come out of it, for your tongue is meant to speak only those things that glorify God and also edify men, not things that dishonour them.

My prayer is that you will daily find in God all the strength you need to keep these words in mind and to also begin to put them to work in your life and affairs. Amen.